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Date: November 19, 2022
Weird comments. “Only if you want it…” No, y’all’s values don’t seem aligned. Look at it this way you don’t want to share her but she is willing to share you. This could end bad in the future. Be true to who you are and go with what your gut is telling you Gl
Who are these people going on night walks in big cities.
I’m built like a lean D1 Defensive end and hell if I’m caught just strolling around my downtown neighborhood past sundown.
You are a crazy person if you can’t just eat 10-15 bucks a month to walk in peace at a planet fitness without the risk of being the next news story tomorrow.
How does she not recognize the insanity of this, or just say “f*** you mean we are walking at 2 am, you can go walk at 2 am”
You might not be interested in taking care of an animal, but you have them. So step up and take care of them.
we’ve been together over a year and up until maybe 3 months ago, he respected my beliefs and opinions and never yelled or made it in to anything bigger. i made a comment in the very beginning of the relationship that i couldn’t be with someone who doesn’t see some of the bigger things the same way i did and he told me that couples have different beliefs all the time and as long as we respect each others, we can work. looking back now, i see how i was young and naive and i should’ve have compromised my values but then again, he no longer listens to my point of things or tries to engage in a conversation about any of it. instead, he yells his point to me and it always ends with some type of ‘i can’t believe you’re so ignorant and think like that’ or ‘it scares me that you think the way you do’.
Red flags I repeat red flags.
They're saying the opposite…i read it like that too.
They're mad that you're encouraging their son to become independent from them. They are crazy and abusive.
Have you read OP's answers? She is the reason this relationship didn't work because she is self centered.
Biggest advice I wish I'd been given earlier in life:
“If you can't have these conversations before you live together, do not live! together.”
If you want a future with someone, that future is going to include nude times as well as good; complicated situations as well as simple choices, and a lot of plain old life choices. If your SO and you don't have the communication skills or common ground to have even the most rudimentary discussion about your plans, you will not make it past the honeymoon phase of living together.
So yeah it sucks to have to think about it that way, but if you can't get more of a conversation out of him than “it'll all work out,” then you really can't expect more than that from him when life gets real. Unless you're okay with being the adult in the relationship forever, do not move in with him before you are both on the same page.
My real-life experience taught me this after a married a man who constantly said exactly that: “It'll all work out somehow” because in his life, it always had. The reason for that was his mother took care of everything. He didn't even know how to write out a check to pay a bill (this was a long time ago) much less keep a budget. I didn't know any of this until we already lived together, and when I voiced concern, he dismissed it all with “you have to learn to live! in the moment, it'll all work out.”
Viewers, it did not, indeed, work out.
I was too afraid to mess up the relationship by attempting to hold him accountable for what would wind up being my life, my credit, and my lease. In retrospect, that moment was simultaneously a red flag and an opportunity to see my future with him. If I'd taken it and pushed him on being responsible, I would've saved myself years of drama, expense, and divorce. If he'd known that I wouldn't move in with him without showing some willingness to start adulting, maybe he would've tried? I don't know, but maybe?
As it was, I was willing to move in with him as he presented, so his behavior was “accepted,” and therefore, any complaints I had about his avoidance were null and void to him.
So it did all work out in the end, just not for him.
So if he moves back to Korea, what happens to your relationship? Are you going to move with him?
This guy is a pig. Don't go. You deserve better.