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It has only been 2.5 weeks so that's probably why I'm still unable to trust him. That said, he has been trying to show me with his actions that he's trying to change (beyond making an apology). I guess it'll take time like you said!
If you have to keep pushing your boundaries back every time you set them, the other person doesn't care about you or your boundaries, and I hate to sya it but he is an addict who hasn't gotten individual therapy since this started… a year ago?
Do you really need to ask yourself whether he's going through steps and lying to you so you don't leave him or if he actually cares about this being a real issue? And if you know the answer like everyone reading this, do you want tp be with someone who would pretend to do something just to manipulate you into staying without working through the real issue if you removed him from the situation? If this were another guy, would you put up with his behavior?
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Tell him he can pay for the laser removal if it's that important to him.
It has only been 2.5 weeks so that's probably why I'm still unable to trust him. That said, he has been trying to show me with his actions that he's trying to change (beyond making an apology). I guess it'll take time like you said!
You still didn’t answer.
What do you want from him? What do you want from a relationship?
If you have to keep pushing your boundaries back every time you set them, the other person doesn't care about you or your boundaries, and I hate to sya it but he is an addict who hasn't gotten individual therapy since this started… a year ago?
Do you really need to ask yourself whether he's going through steps and lying to you so you don't leave him or if he actually cares about this being a real issue? And if you know the answer like everyone reading this, do you want tp be with someone who would pretend to do something just to manipulate you into staying without working through the real issue if you removed him from the situation? If this were another guy, would you put up with his behavior?
You have zero right to ask her to delete anything from a previous relationship
YTA
Well did the time apart make you realize you were compatible or not?