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Date: October 19, 2022
They want someone to pat their hair and tell them they're not entirely a bad person.
Just forget about it and keep going. If something similar happens again then you might want to make a decision
I don't know what to tell you, brother. She's not open to therapy and you can't even think about sex around her. I know it sucks, but I'm not even sure what advice to give.
I'm just sorry. I know you must be hurting right now. But I think it might be time to move on. It sounds like she has some issues that aren't going to get resolved anytime soon. Maybe some space will help? I really don't know. I hate how many people on this just immediately say “break up.” I'm definitely, definitely not doing that, but I just don't know how you can move forward.
It sounds from this, and a few of your other comments here, that you feel resentful toward your partner for not offering more financially. If she is a student, and can’t contribute more due to that… then it’s hardly fair to be upset with her for it. I mean surely the two of you had some sort of a conversation about how your financial contributions would work prior to moving in together? If not, then that’s just as much on you as it is her. There should be at least some sort of a plan/agreement for who’s going to pay for what, and what each of you thinks is fair, before living together. It is extremely common for things not to be split 50/50, especially if one person’s salary is a significant amount lower than the other’s.
I dated a man once, who insisted that he’d “support me through college,” that way I’d have a degree and be able to earn more in the future. He had a good-paying job anyway, and supported himself just fine before I came into the picture. I debated this with him for months, unwilling to “lean” on him even if it was only because I was in school. But he insisted that he’d support us happily. Well, he changed his mind real quick and began to grow increasingly bitter towards me for not making as much money as him (I worked part-time). He used any situation possible as a punishment for me; refusing to buy anything I liked when grocery shopping because “I should be buying my own things.” Refusing to include me in any decisions that effected our relationship, like housing/new expenses/major purchases… because “He’d be paying the majority anyway.” I had no say in anything ever, despite contributing financially, just a lesser amount. It became extremely toxic and I just constantly felt like he hated me, even though he was the one who pushed for this arrangement in the first place. I felt like I was being punished constantly.
If you agreed, in any way, that her going to school was fine by you & you understood that that’d mean she wouldn’t be able to contribute as much… then it’s pretty wrong of you to cut her out of a major decision that definitely effects her too (I assume if you move, she moves too right?). Sure, she wouldn’t be “paying her fair share” as you put it, but is that not something you’ve been more or less okay with thus far? She probably just feels blindsided by the sudden shift in the agreement, especially if you’ve never told her before that her lack of financial contribution is a sore spot for you.
I see your point. Your money, your house. But that’s just such a strange way to behave towards someone you claim to love and want to spend your life with. But hey, based on your comments once again… it sounds like you don’t even want to spend your life with her. So what’s the point in all this? You’re clearly unhappy with her current situation, and are refusing to let her even give her 2 cents on your future living arrangements (which, by the way, is something that she may actually be able to contribute more to in the future, once school is done…). Why are you with her, just to make her feel small?