Communication needs to come forward. Talk about feelings with him and I hope he can open up equally and is understanding.
Personally, with what you said makes sense and I would go with it if love was true love. I can see his point of view as condoms in my endeavors ruin my erection after a few minutes and the personal shame of not holding strong is embarrassing. But again, that can be worked out. I speak up about how condoms do this to me with my partners and I've gone through 4+ condoms in a single bout as we went back and forth between oral and intercourse due to the loss of my erection. There are ways to have intimacy and still provide a safe place for our minds to be at peace. Being open to your partner is key to true intimacy. I hope it works out in the end for the two of you. I really do.
Likelihood is slim. It depends on how 'stable' Op is. We don't know anything here.
I actually know someone whose husband cheated on her, and impregnated his AP. But he came crawling back begging her forgiveness and she chose to stay with him and work on their marriage.
They managed to get sole custody of the affair baby, since the AP liked to do drugs recreationally. Birth mom only gets visitation until now.
But complete utter drama though between those 3. They go to court so often.
Hold your ground, you are TOTALLY in the right. If it was me, as hot as harsh as it sounds, either im her full 100% coparen, or Im not and Im not getting again involved in anything that has to do with her. As “simple” as that.
If you dont stand your ground and stop this situation ASAP hes going to use the “biological father” wildcard whenever he pleases.
She wants me to leave.
Communication needs to come forward. Talk about feelings with him and I hope he can open up equally and is understanding.
Personally, with what you said makes sense and I would go with it if love was true love. I can see his point of view as condoms in my endeavors ruin my erection after a few minutes and the personal shame of not holding strong is embarrassing. But again, that can be worked out. I speak up about how condoms do this to me with my partners and I've gone through 4+ condoms in a single bout as we went back and forth between oral and intercourse due to the loss of my erection. There are ways to have intimacy and still provide a safe place for our minds to be at peace. Being open to your partner is key to true intimacy. I hope it works out in the end for the two of you. I really do.
Likelihood is slim. It depends on how 'stable' Op is. We don't know anything here.
I actually know someone whose husband cheated on her, and impregnated his AP. But he came crawling back begging her forgiveness and she chose to stay with him and work on their marriage.
They managed to get sole custody of the affair baby, since the AP liked to do drugs recreationally. Birth mom only gets visitation until now.
But complete utter drama though between those 3. They go to court so often.
You stop watching her shower, like a normal human. What else can you do? Divorce her? This is a silly argument.
You're supposed to like being in a relationship, not telling yourself that maybe it'll get better if you keep suffering through it.
You realize he won't stop if you ask him to. You realize you put yourself at risk if you do so, right? You know this is real, so treat it as such.
Hold your ground, you are TOTALLY in the right. If it was me, as hot as harsh as it sounds, either im her full 100% coparen, or Im not and Im not getting again involved in anything that has to do with her. As “simple” as that.
If you dont stand your ground and stop this situation ASAP hes going to use the “biological father” wildcard whenever he pleases.