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Date: December 19, 2022
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Entering into a relationship with a mental health issue that is severe and untreated is going to be a struggle for both of you. The best chance you have at making this work is to start with your own mental health. Marriage won’t make that insecurity go away.
Just to clarify, you are currently living in different cities and want to go from this to moving in together?
It sounds like there are two parts to your issue. One is the fact that you are doing long distance, and the second is that you’re not living together. It sounds like you both find the long-distance challenging, whereas it sounds like you’re the only one who wants to move in together as well.
Why are you guys long distance? How long have you been long distance? Is there a way for you guys to move to the same city as a middle ground and see if this improves your relationship before potentially moving in together? I’m not necessarily saying you’re wrong, but I can understand his apprehension about simply going from LDR to moving in together when you’re not in a good place with your relationship to begin with. Perhaps it would be a good idea to address the issues you’ve been having as a result of not being able to see each other regularly because of the distance. Everyone is different but I think I would view it differently if say, you guys had been together in the same city for four years and things were going well and he simply didn’t want to move in together.
Simply do not be around them. Your bf has a point that trying to correct people who are trying to start shit is exactly what the shit starters want. They want conflict. Would you take advice from these people? If not, don't accept their criticism either. It's actually not even your problem if other people don't like you. You can go about your business unbothered if you choose to.
I am the child of a mild hoarder. When your bedroom is filled with hampers of papers and 5 lamps I think it does change how you view objects in your home. Just having objects around feels so normal. When I lived alone I would let things pile up for a few days and then it was like I'd really see it so I'd clean everything up. I found some ways to help myself like I only owned a few plates or not having a lot of surfaces or decorative clutter.
That being said, now I live with my partner and he is a very tidy person. This would drive him nuts. I had to change bc while I didn't mind the mess HE DID. It took us a bit to figure out balance and the rule is now that we pick up and “reset” the apt at the end of the night together. Since I cook he does the dishes while I tidy up the few rooms we use, handle the laundry, take out the dog etc.
It's hard for people to change but they can. The key is they have to want to. I still don't notice the mess but I am committed to picking up every night so it doesn't pile up. While he is out of town I let the apt go and it's weirdly soothing. While I don't think I've changed I have created habits bc I love my partner. If he wanted to, he would.