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SophiaGarcia1 Public Chat Channel
Date: October 3, 2022
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What I want to know is why did he feel the need to mention it to her? If he was trying to be polite he just wouldn't do it at all.
Were they high?
Also, why is a 45 year old married with kids dude out partying with a single woman? Dave's wife must be super chilled or something is askew in their marriage.
Everything about this is bizarre to me. I don't know how they'd carry on being friends, I would be too skeeved out.
Hit her back
This is the first time YOU saw her going drunk with another dude. Who’s to tell how many times she did this without you being around.
You can pretend that not disclosing your original gender isn't necessary as much as you want but it won't change the fact that she's been lying to him for months.
This isn't someone that he “banged a few times”. This is a 4 month relationship. Regardless of how long you think that is they are dating, which is a lot more serious than a hookup. Not that it should matter, because she should be disclosing that to hookups as well.
You could argue that he should have had the convo with her before having sex which I would agree with. It takes two to tango, and he should be responsible as well, so he's not wasting her time. However, if she is the one who has something that needs to be brought up, it still falls under her responsibility.
Your excuse for not disclosing info is just pure laziness and entitlement. If I was dating someone and was infertile, that is something I am bringing up right away. What's the point of her hiding that info from him for months if there was a chance he wouldn't be okay with it?? Just wasting both her and his time, energy, and feelings.
Question, if you don’t mind answering, what’s the nationality of your husband and family
I have a friend like this. We were neighbors as kids and grew up together. She has always had terrible self esteem, and won't date nice guys or men that don't fit the motorcycle bad boy persona. I'm 27 and she's about 30 now. When I started hanging out with my now husband, I was kinda timid because I had gotten out of an abusive relationship, and when the three of us went to get Friday the 13th tattoos and she decided he was attractive enough to flirt with, she told me either you kiss him or I will.
It was at that point I was floored, she knew we were taking it slow and she was also involved with a couple other men she was casually dating but not wanting to commit but somehow also wanting to get married and fast track the relationship. She made no sense. I couldn't keep up with her texts and screenshots and photos of these way older dudes with baby mommas who she wanted to play step mom to, and would, then would call me in the middle of the night still, even when my husband and I were engaged and I was pregnant asking if she could crash on our couch because the guy beat her up only for her to go back and them break up within 3-6 months. I couldn't take it anymore.
I had to stop talking to her, I still have her on Facebook and I thought this last dude she was with was working out because she changed her last name to his on Facebook and posted a picture of a marriage license. I was like yay finally she's getting it together, and not even a month later her status is single again and posting the same bs update about how no man appreciates her and how he didn't work and wasn't emotionally available to her. At this point nobody likes or comments kind words to her, only her parents and grandparents comment on it telling her to not post personal stuff on Facebook or some cliche words of encouragement. She does it to herself.
I've been with my husband for over three years and we have an almost two year old daughter. Between her and my brother in law they seem to think whoever you date is the right person for you and that things can work out the way it did for me and my husband, when in reality we still have problems but we love each other very much and are fortunate our relationship has worked out the way it has.
My point in telling you this story is that I understand where you are coming from but you can't change her. Even after I stopped being her person to cry and over share her sexual exploits she still continues, on Facebook and to anyone who reads or briefly puts up with it. Even when I tried talking to her about other things or telling her she made me uncomfortable talking about her sex life in detail she still did it. I reckon this friend is the same way, and nothing you say or do will fix her.
I read quite a bit of it, but had to stop because it just was not plausible in any way.
Clearly you want to be exclusive. You have to broach that conversation with him. It may be that he is not ready for that yet, and then you will have to decide if you can continue going like this