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Sophia-lennox Public Chat Channel
Date: November 6, 2022
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Sophia-lennox Public Chat Channel
Wow did you really do that? That’s so stupid ???
I think it would be different if she came to you months ago when she first started developing a crush. But instead she hid it, looked to him for emotional support, and confessed feelings, all without telling you at all. This is an emotional affair and cheating all the same. I’d dip out and find someone who respects you and your relationship.
I hear you. My wife said to make sure you wash up too so you show you're trying too. Acknowledge that you know he's clean, but this will make it more enjoyable for you. She also said a shower together beforehand is fun.
Course not, but this just suddenly appeared in my brain, wanted to say this out, and the personality thing, everyone knows how he is, i’ve just never met such a person like this
To what end? What are you hoping to accomplish? Are you looking to start a relationship with a friend? Do you definitely want to stay with your girlfriend?
I’ll keep an open mind here and see if you can provide a good reason to tell her. Because there are obviously reasons not to tell her. Let’s compare and contrast, shall we?
I get that. When I was married, I used to go to football games with my buds and tailgate and all that. Get to the game early to tailgate, stay late after the traffic died down. My wife hated it. I would get texts asking why I wasn't home yet, and before I left for the game she would be upset I was leaving so early. The next season I got an extra ticket so she could come, she enjoyed the game, but hated everything else.
The issue wasn't that I was having fun at the game, it was the fact she wanted me home, with her. It took me a long time to figure out what her deal was. The main issue was she wanted me to be excited about her as much as I was excited about hanging out with my friends at the game.
My real advice is to find something for you and your partner to do which you both can look forward to amd enjoy together. That may ease his feelings about you going out as well. Just a thought.
With all that said, I don't think my ex wife's stance or feelings about the matter were invalid or controlling or anything like that. It was just what she wanted in the relationship. After we got divorced, she is still a homebody who would rather sit down on the couch and watch TV more than anything else.
So you already had your own place, where he crashed frequently. While he was crashing with you, he got into screaming matches towards you that got you evicted from your place. Then you found yourself another place, and he's angry, why? People who say they “feel inadequate” when their partner does normal adult things, is not a healthy situation, at all, honey. Please get out of this before things escalate further. Which they will. He's shown you classic signs of toxic and abusive behavior already. This will only get worse for you. Please find a safe way to get this guy out of your life, permanently.
Edit: spelling
It sounds like your values and aspirations are not aligned.
Personally this would be a dealbreaker for me – I can’t see myself with someone who a) flies business class and b) thinks they can tell me what I should aspire to.
And hire a cleaning person.
Some people can be just fine 'being together'. They don't even have to talk, just being in the same room doing different things entirely. However, they still enjoy it. I'm like this. I don't need continual stimulation to enjoy someone's company.
However, some people are the exact opposite. It's all perfectly normal (so long as you talk it through and find out). Don't jump to the worst conclusion and just ask her. Good luck pal.
Instead of cheating like a jerk, just break up.
Of course there wouldn't be. It's a test for men and God Forbid their dicks get touched by something that could be corrected and not passed on.
Most of those stories are fiction to rule people up. They even recycle the same stories verbatim over time.
This guy is an ass. Stop dating him – save yourself oceans of heartache. If he’s this punitive and withholding after just a few weeks – he’s only going to get worse.
Worst part? He’s convinced you you actually did something wrong. You didn’t.
Don’t reach out to him & tell him you’re done if he reaches out to you.
Ugh.
Why call it fwb if you want more?
Bail
Well, you ignored all of the massive red flags because he was “nice” and now you are facing the consequences of your own actions.
If you stay with him, you will be taking care of him forever. Is that what you want?