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Date: February 7, 2023
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God forbid he wants to be safe
“This far into a relationship”
For one, it's 9 months – that's not very far. Also, relationships change as the people in them change, and the relationship also changes the people.
You're both pretty young, and your BF just learned new things about birth control effectiveness. Life is a long string of learning stuff you didn't already know, and lots of people are under-informed about birth control. So, it's hardly surprising that he learned new information, and it is good and responsible that he is reacting to it.
I'm more interested in why you aren't reacting similarly. You say you don't want a child, but also that you're “not sure” if you'd abort an unwanted pregnancy. Sounds to me like someone is well-positioned for an “oops” pregnancy, and it sounds to me like your BF wants to avoid that as much as possible.
It's not about you.
We did. Once we moved in together it became less and I figured, well that’s probably normal. And when we got married, it just stopped.
Hun, if he wanted to be with you, he would have shown it by now. People in love don't ghost each other or take off for long periods just to pop up for a night or two and then disappear again.
You're going to need to make peace with the fact that you're simply a convenience to him, not a must have.
Pretty sure because she never lived with her dad. She lived far away in another part of the state and her mom had sole custody. She was born when her mom was 18, her mom slept with her dad when he was married with 2 kids. She has her moms last name, her mom and grandma raised her. Sadly her dad had 50/50 custody of her older sister and full custody of her youngest sister. All half siblings with different moms. He couldn’t control who my fiancé talked to or risk abusing her because she was always with her mom around him and maybe saw him once every couple of months with mom and grandma present
Leave and watch him date a real woman. I bet money.
What do you mean you stepped outside your community? He’s probably still in the community. He could be more devout that you and you not know. What I’m saying is his sense of humor is a completely separate thing. It has nothing to do with how devout you are. Even though I’m not in the Catholic community anymore, some of the funniest (and some of the crudest) people I knew were catholic school instructors and a couple of guys I knew in the seminary. And they were also some of the most religious.
This has to be a shitpost
Yes I did talk to him about it but he doesn’t think he’s being controlling. Which is crazy to me. He thinks since he pays for it he has the final say.
i mean i said it was somebody off twitter. more than likely it's gonna be long distance lol
Idk if children and your partners behavior toward your pets are comparable, but the question is, do you want to be with someone who views your pets like that? Refuses to understand they’re living creatures with their own thoughts and experiences?
That’s the question OP.
Keep in mind in the original post there is no mention of the husband accusing her of doing anything sexual with her brother. I'd imagine she would absolutely have written that if it was the case.
You are not paying her, you are paying for your child to have a good and decent life. I assume she is going to take most care like she did before.
Your sisters are narcissists, go nc with the lot of them.
Burn any bridges you need to to keep your own peace.
Who needs enemies with family like this?
Abusive people CAN change but the probability is very low. Unless this man hit rock bottom as a consequence to his actions (i.e. went to jail, psychiatry, lost his job,…) and decided to change and do lots of hot work in therapy there‘s a high risk he‘ll do it again. The fact that he isn’t open about it and uses “being in a dark place“ as an excuse is a big fat red flag and indication that he hasn’t taken full accountability for his actions. Please be careful.
Abusive people CAN change but the probability is very low. Unless this man hit rock bottom as a consequence to his actions (i.e. went to jail, psychiatry, lost his job,…) and decided to change and do lots of hot work in therapy there‘s a high risk he‘ll do it again. The fact that he isn’t open about it and uses “being in a dark place“ as an excuse is a big fat red flag and indication that he hasn’t taken full accountability for his actions. Please be careful.
Abusive people CAN change but the probability is very low. Unless this man hit rock bottom as a consequence to his actions (i.e. went to jail, psychiatry, lost his job,…) and decided to change and do lots of hot work in therapy there‘s a high risk he‘ll do it again. The fact that he isn’t open about it and uses “being in a dark place“ as an excuse is a big fat red flag and indication that he hasn’t taken full accountability for his actions. Please be careful.
Sounds like it is for the best she is not going to the wedding then.
I agree that nobody wants to hear their partner is scared of them, but nobody wants their experience minimized. Nobody wants their partner to make to make something majorly painful in their life about themselves. I think if you really want to be in a mixed-race relationship, you have to learn not to make comments about broad racial issues about yourself. Instead, just hear and understand him. He obviously wants to be with you and wants to he close to you. If he was truly afraid, he would break up with you.
I'm quite sure that it's evident that he told his wife that he would like children at some point in their lives. What isn't clear is if his wife said in a previous conversation that she may change her mind.
Sounds like a badly placed joke that he realised after to be fair.
Before saying it Just didn‘t think about how it could come of as making fun of you
This seems quite harsh
My stepdaughter recently got married (literally last weekend) and she included both dads. Each had their own song and they both walked her down the aisle together.