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You are literally a teenager. Don’t get engaged or married yet. Your brain isn’t fully developed until you are 25, you haven’t finished college, you don’t even know what career you are going to have.
Is she also going to pressure you to have babies before you are ready? She could pull the same stunt and get pregnant before you graduate, forcing you to quit school to provide for your child, derailing your life plan.
Don’t wreck your life over some arbitrary deadline.
You’re right, it should be easy but it’s unfortunately not because my crush is so big. I definitely haven’t acted on it but i find myself wanting to hangout with that person a lot, plus we sit very close since we’re in the same team and we talk all day long. However, we never contact each other off hours, that’s where i draw the limit but i think i have to create more and stronger boundaries.
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OP if you don’t like them, you don’t have to wear them. Just communicate that to your husband
He sounds like a child.
Respect. Thank you. I edited the text to give more context. You are right.
I mean shit even if she is my type… this ain’t a normal response ?
Famous last words “I’ll never cheat “, “I trust my partner 100%”, “we’re just friends “ etc etc. too many people have said this and have cheated or caught their partners cheating. whether she’s insecure or not your wife is uncomfortable w this friendship. Why put her above your marriage & wife?
Again, if that’s not what they are into, what’s your complaint???? It’s not judgmental to be attracted to a specific style. What about all the clean cut straight edge guys that want to date you? Is it fair for them to be upset that you’re not attracted to them?
This type of imbalance in wanting children or not is usually insurmountable. One person will always be unhappy. And it looks like your partner has made up his mind.
Plus your age gap disturbs me. Ten years difference puts you at different stages in your lives. As seen in this conflict. He's done having children and you are not. This is not good.
Honetly you could slightly rewrite this post and sent to her, but from your post I get the impression she would try her hardest to do… something. This is the problem. You can just break, as you don't need any reason beyond being miserable in your relationship.
However on assumption you do nit want to do it, what is that you can do? Well you can tell her what problems you have with her and what you would like to change. To this notion you should write down the changes you desire. Like her spending more time with you, or having her be honest with her likes and dislikes, as current state of relationship makes you feel increasingly detached.
I should mention something. I have read a post here once. A post about marriage where wife has completely detached herself after getting her second child. She has told that OP that she was keeping silent about all her dislikes and whatnots, but was very unhappy in reality.
It was not stated directly, but you have to imagine what was her reasoning. She wanted to have family with children and their father present. She did what it took.
My point is, just becauseyour gf seems fine with everything, it does not mean she is. This isn't necessarily true, but it is possible. After all you do not spend much time together, do you? The more time you spend together the harder it is to keep up the act.
So yeah if you press her for more time to spent together (especially when living under the same roof), as well keep insisting to get her actual opinions from her… you might get something unexpected out of it.
She doesn't owe you anything. She fucked up, bit you have been trying to put friend points into her in hopes that sex or a relationship will fall out. That's on you.
If you’re seriously dating someone, they should have the opportunity to decide if a very fucking serious moral failing is a dealbreaker or not.
A person doesn’t have to be actively, currently abusive for me to feel disgusted by the fact that they used to intentionally cause physical harm to someone who they claimed to love and care for. It’s not the same as depression, which is not a choice. Domestic violence is a choice.
This whole situation demonstrates why being up front and honest is the ONLY way to deal with having a disgusting, scary black mark on your dating history. Because if you don’t tell, someone else will. And if you’re not ready to be open about your flawed past and the work you’ve done to change, you’re probably not ready to be dating people.
Just okay attention to this for a moment.
When this baby you’re carrying now comes, you need to do your best. Your best is not sticking around with someone who might get high and violent around you and your baby. This is not safe.
Please just think it through. Play devils advocate and really think about the worst situation possible. Just think for a moment he really hurts your baby, would you be able to forgive yourself for putting you and baby in that position? Would you be okay with it if he causes shaken baby syndrome? If your perfect little angle gets severe brain damage and then has a very tough life thereafter? These are the things that happen when you are sleep deprived, and then mix it with drugs etc.
Yes you can tell your husband to not drink or to not do drugs, but you cannot physically prevent it from happening. You need to be honest with yourself. Do you 100000000% believe he will never take drugs again??