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Date: October 21, 2022
I kind of understand why one wouldn‘t want to have sex with someone a friend slept with, but this has nothing to do with the women so your connection to ‚rape culture‘ is just fucking weird dude. What does this have to do with rape huh?
Very sorry ?, I can't help but think that something more is going on. He might just need more time to stabilize mentally
it's only unethical if you are still seeing him as a patient. code says 5 years I think it was before a former patient can form a relationship with their therapist romantically.
but just being friends is not wrong.
Many people do that. I married a man who did it (40 years ago, since remarried a much better one) and my cousin married a woman like that. He’s still stuck.
Thank you so much for this. For a time, years ago, I did therapy and the harshness with which I treat myself was often the subject of discussion.
For whatever reason, I didn’t think to frame what I’m feeling with that and reading your comment within that scope actually feels quite liberating and true.
I’ve told him it’s difficult for me when he leaves and what I feel but I try not to go into detail for a couple of reasons.
The first, I admit, is out of fear. He’s a very confident person and appreciates relationships where he can practice a lot of freedom. I believe in this in theory but emotionally it can be taxing on me. I don’t want for him to ever feel constrained by me.
And second, he loves his line of work and these trips are important for his career. I would never dream of getting in the way of that. And if I told him, I think he’d second guess committing to as many projects as he does because he’d worry too much about me.
That being said, just reading your comment and replying to you now makes me feel a lot less crazy. I’m going to try to be a little nicer to myself.
Thank you again
Nope. This is BS. I could have bought it up until the deliberate breaking of an arm. That's an extremist reaction. This is a post to provoke hate against Muslims.
When someone's friend is in emotional turmoil, such as dealing with a loved one's death, a good person will make allowances and do whatever (within reason) possible to help. Of course care for the pets a couple days. Of course drive to the airport and watch a car. These are reasonable. And really, creamer? Really?
Cut him some slack. He's helping a friend. Also, if he wanted to be with her romantically, would she reciprocate? They went from bf/gf to friends 5 years ago.
These are not romantic actions he is taking, but friendly ones.
There’s a time and a place though, he states multiple times that she knew this guy had a gun on him. Don’t escalate a situation where the other party has a weapon should be basic common sense.
the fact she was a side chick for a married man
This is something that you really need to dig deep and decide whether you can move past. You probably need to discuss with her how it makes you feel, how it affects her trust, and get a better feeling of how she feels about this now. If she thinks it's OK to be the other woman, and that conflicts with your values – that's a dealbreaker.
the fact she was basically some guys sex toy
You reaaaallly need to reframe how you think about this relationship. As far as I can tell from how you've described what she told you, this was fully consensual. A consensual dom/sub relationship, or dd/lg specifically like this, is absolutely about the sub or lg's pleasure as much as it is about the dom or daddy's. Although the dynamic might involve 'being used', she was not 'basically some guys sex toy' – she was actively engaged and seems to have really enjoyed it! That is totally, totally valid and you should not judge her for this.
However, it's also valid for you to feel confused about why she hid this from you, why she behaves differently in your sex life, and whether or not you are sexually compatible. That's something that you need to have a really open and honest conversation about with her, but please do that without judgement.
He isn't telling her not to upset her but because he plans to sleep with her,
If your broken up you don't take an ex out for birthday, he trying to win her back and your letting him
Be straight up,be amicable until you sell the property but if you go to this dinner I will walk out and not come back.
And stick to that
I ended the conversation and everything at that moment because he was about to head out with his friends and if I’m slightly upset or if he’s slightly upset when he’s about to, he accuses me of ruining his time. I have tried to talk to him about it but he got all “you don’t care about me” and it’s like wtf how is checking my phone for 10 seconds not caring about you when I literally said everything you had said and when you literally go on your phone all the time when I’m talking?
Yeah 24 hours is the “I planned for this the whole time”
I have tried in the past, and she acknowledges what’s happening and says that she’ll do something about it if she gets sick again, and then she just… doesn’t.
She’s in a “well state” now, and I did talk to her about it recently, when I had to push her to go get help this time, that I couldn’t accept no for an answer anymore. Except I was so angry, that I know there’s no productive discussion that could have come of it. She did agree to go get the help, and had that appointment yesterday.
Right now, because of my anger, and because she’s doing the things I want her to do so that we can actually work on the relationship, I’m trying not to address anything right now until she’s been on a regimen for awhile. I think things can be more productive that way, and that things might improve a bit in their own anyway, and I don’t want to make things worse with my anger, when she’s actually making moves to improve.
Does that make sense, or does it seem more like an excuse? Legitimately asking, cuz I’m not always good at that.
A relationship is a form of contract with individual rules. It is cheating if this breaks said rules.
(It probably is cheating, would be cheating in common sense and I would regard it as cheating)
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So yeah she wants to go unprotected. I really like her. I trust her. I want to especially cause it’s gonna be my first time and it seems like the best way to do it. But I’m a lil hesitant.
She’s on birth control and seems to think it’s a non issue. I am aware that’s like 99.9 but not 100%. Idk. She is very intelligent and we are not in a position to have kids. I doubt she would risk an abortion that heavily so I believe that she believes it won’t be an issue.
I would never dream of demanding her to get one but I am also not ready to a be a father so I’m really unsure of myself here. It is legal and accessible here. But I don’t think it’s meant as a backup plan should literally be like a last resort you never want to go to.
Idk fellas, ladies, what should I do? I really like her like insanely like a lot. I know what I want to do, I’m just not sure if it’s a good call? What y’all think?
Edit: not a single person here has told me to go for it. I’m starting to think I shouldn’t. The lizard brain wants it so bad. I gotta have self control or what am I?!?
Don't go back. That is not a healthy way of dealing with good things, so there's no way he's gonna be able to deal with tough things in life.