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Date: October 31, 2022
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Communication is a HUGE thing in the lifestyle. Are you in the wrong? Both yes and no. It's he in the wrong yes, and again kinda not.
Communication is what's lacking in most relationships, but it is so very important in the swinging and bdsm lifestyle.
I use the ol Bugs Bunny analogy. If no one tells you to turn left at Albuquerque, you certainly won't turn left at Albuquerque.
You didn't know the limits because the limits he didn't tell you the limits, but you didn't ask either. On the flip side of that coin, he most certainly should have brought up that limit.
Now is the time to BOTH acknowledge the mistake of not communicating, and make that promise to EACH OTHER that you'll communicate every detail, no matter how minor it may seem.
You'll find an entire new level of respect and closeness you've never experienced.
Feel free to shoot a message and I'll try answer any questions you have
I will tell you my personal experience as an advice:
I have a relationship of three years with my girlfriend, since I met her she has had three cats and a dog, I am not a fan and I will confess that sometimes I do not like pets (I think I am a bit grumpy haha) But sometimes Despite that, my girlfriend has left me alone with her pets and I have had to take care of them, take them out for a walk, take them to the vet, feed them and even play with them. It has been on a few occasions but I have done it because first they are living beings that deserve all the respect and affection in the world, second because I know how much my girlfriend loves them and she really takes very good care of them and as an owner she is excellent and she loves them A lot that would make her feel bad if something happens to her pets since she rescued them from the street and has worked nude to give them a home. To the point that I want to go, talk and be frank with your boyfriend, personally it is not worth continuing with a person who treats another living being badly
I think you need to have a serious conversation. Not just “I need space” but “Listen. Your attitude towards my trying to have any kind of hobby or activity outside of you is toxic, and it's not going to be something I put up with any longer. I know it's well-intentioned, but well-adjusted couples have a balance between things they do together and things they do alone. And your getting upset when I ask for you to respect normal boundaries in a relationship is manipulative and inappropriate. We have two choices here. You get some therapy to find out why you are so unable to allow me to have normal breathing room and time for myself, and you stop trying to prevent me from doing so, or we break up. No third option. What is it going to be?”
If she still thinks she's in the right, then just leave. If you can make her understand how toxic what she is doing is, and she commits to working on it, then it could definitely be salvageable.
If you are incompatible with his sense of humour and he is incompatible with your “all about my faith” Catholic identity- it is time to politely let him know that you want to end all contact.
Then move on to only chatting with traditionalist practicing catholic guys who are your type with a similar sense of humour and future ambitions to you. Good luck!
You already avoided and dated. Nothing has changed or gotten better.
You want different futures. You as stealing time and opportunity from each order to find people that want the same futures.
She’s literally asking for the same thing he is. If you think that’s “petty revenge” then that says more about you than her.
You’re stupid for taking your girlfriend whom you should care about to a dangerous neighborhood where simply speaking English (your gf’s only language) could escalate a situation. You fucked up.
Unless context is missing, that's some wild shit to get upset about on her part. She needs to learn to stay in her lane since it's your money you used to buy a car for you.