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Date: November 11, 2022
You call having kids baggage? The absolute gall on some women I swear.
If your on the pill, you should be fine for the most part but it depends on how often you take it on time or miss a pill. And taking a plan b won’t fuck up your system. At most, it will make your period a little early or late (depending on where you’re at in your current cycle) and if you don’t want to pay for it, ask the guy. I’m sure he’ll have no problem paying for it, so long as you take it
You're saying people in relationships should never get drunk..? That's crazy.
I clicked only because of the age gap and how it was 100% sure they'd be drama. I'm barely 30 and dating early 20s sounds so weird.
I mean if they are a SW then no it’s not cheating if that is your job. If you aren’t and it’s just for fun, yeah that’s a form of cheating. It would be as if that person went into the room of the person they sent it to, stripped off all of their clothes and stood there. It would be beyond weird but there is a sexual connotation to it regardless. Now, if you have to send things to your doctor like if you are maybe having breast surgery and you need to show them the progress or if any problems are occurring, I wouldn’t see this as a problem. Again it’s all about context and other than for medical or SW reasons, there isn’t a reason to send nudes to someone while you are in a relationship if they exist outside of those perimeters.
So… what did the note say?
I can only speculate, but based on my experiences with cheaters, yes. I knew my ex was cheating whenever he'd do “manscaping” (trim or shave his pubic hair) or would post up certain types of pictures to facebook. I would notice these things and within 48 hours catch him cheating. I gave him a few chances to correct the behavior, but in the end he refused to stop and we parted ways.
He is gaslighting you by telling you that you're crazy when you're expressing your feelings. He is doing it to cover his ass because there is something going on.
I cannot say this man is cheating. I can only offer you advice. My advice is to drop it, drop him, walk away, and make yourself happy.
I guess I am hopeless or will prove a lot of people wrong
Honey, you are going down the path we all know you're going down including you and the person who will be hurt is your future child. Is this the home you want to bring them up in?
Stop dating women who are in their early 20s an you probably won't have this issue
Christmas is for kids.
Best and only answer.
So you always get your way and never let him get his?
I am roaring!
The becoming better at telling jokes part especially helps. I was thinking something similar: if I become better at telling stories then people will be more likely to listen until the end in the first place. Same with being in the spotlight in general. In a group of friends, the attention often shifts between impersonal topics and between putting the spotlight on one of us at a time. But being able to both listen well (showing you're on the same wavelength) and when and how to get people's attention and say your part until the end is a skill that comes with experience, isn't it?
I do plan on going back to therapy at some point, at the moment I'm swamped by my studies and would rather use the time for other restful or social activities. In the meantime I might focus on this issue by journaling or doing some other kind of thinking with myself about it. Maybe from a CBT angle, since this is a kind of catastrophizing thought, isn't it– that feeling that goes straight to the worst possibility of my friends truly meaning their joking remark and not liking me.
As for opening up with them, it's an interesting thought. I don't know if I know them for long enough. We've been studying together for about ten weeks. They've opened up to me about some of their issues and I've opened up a bit about my difficult past. You know, it might be a good idea. I don't want them to get the idea that I need to be coddled or that I'm forcing my extroverted behavior though. I wouldn't want them to change this kind of friendly, healthy behavior that shows trust and affection between guys on the account of that old scar from my past, if that makes sense.
Thanks a lot for your reassuring words and advice. 🙂
yeah the age also plays apart.. from OP replies etc she sound more like early 20s instead a an expected mature person..
Never leave the house. Lawyer up asap. In a year or so you’ll look back on this and feel relieved to be out of the marriage.
Haahahah he sounds like an absolute weeb.
Like another commenter said nothing wrong with it so long as its healthy and it DOES NOT BOTHER YOU.
However, the whole Asian preference sort of screams 'yellow fever' to me.. bit of a racist thing where white guys are into submissive Asian women which stems back into WW2.
If any of this stuff bugs you I'd just break it off personally.
OP is getting worked up about the hypocrisy (as he should) and is totally ignoring the warning signs of the crowd she’s with.
I haven’t talked to her about it yet. That’s the first thing I’m going to do when I’m off work
Some women is this sub are going to tell you to just ignore it but don't listen to them….choose yourself , choose your life… If you had herpes and she didn't you think she would have kept talking to you????????
No
Wake-up bro… Wake the f*ck up and leave
You're not reading anything, then. Your mind is clouded by your insane need for drama and your black & white reactions to things. I don't like your methods, I don't like how you talk to people, and I think you have ulterior motives with no real expectations to help people.
Read my final thoughts comment. There's been a lot of advice that said to do exactly what I wrote there. You can take your bleak view on people's lives elsewhere, and if you're trolling, good work.
She is breastfeeding, she cannot donate plasma
Haven’t told my parents because i don’t want them to worry. Her family knows (we’re in PA because her family is here). They’ve been nothing but supportive and are mad at her. So it’s not that I don’t think anyone with support me because I’m from a really tight family. I think it because I don’t want people to look down on me and say that I failed at my marriage. Used to be a police officer back in AZ and whenever we would get off scene of a adultery call we would always say “fuck being the husband”. I never thought I was going to be me.
I mean he clearly said to you that you are book smart, but not street smart. And then you go on for a few paragraphs showing that you genuinely do not understand what being street smart means. You seem to think that having any sort of deficiency in any area must mean that he thinks you are dumb, which is not the case.
I do wonder though, what kinds of people he believes to be “highly intelligent.” Maybe this category only includes people who are both street smart and book smart, so he would not include you in that category. If he thinks this way, then logically you will never be his definition of highly intelligent. Or at least not until you gain some more street smarts.
The basic advice on pretty much every post in this sub: talk to him about how you feel. Tell him that his comments hurt you, and ask him to further explain how he defines intelligence.
She's processing what happened to her. Its likely that this is how her mind is all the time, day and night. As a victim myself, you can be having the nicest time doing something and suddenly an image of your assault just hijacks your brain. It's called PTSD when this continues long afterwards. While this is very uncomfortable for you, I'd like to think you would give the same support you would want to receive if you had been through what she has. While you're not responsible for her, I would definitely have an honest conversation with her and try to guide her towards help. You can't medicate trauma, but talk therapy and things like EMDR can make a huge difference.
Our relationship before we almost broke up was extremely physical and I felt so far away from him emotionally. I love him
Thank you for your response. I know that Matt was being rude, but I was more concerned with how my comment could have hurt Jake and Alice. I do tend to overthink things a lot which is why I posted here.
Has always been a little prude but has gotten progressively worse
No that’s not the whole problem. Phones exist, we are currently the most interconnected societies in the history of the world. You’re just making excuses.
If he thought the friendship was appropriate, he would not have hid it, and lied about it. He’s being unfaithful. Dump him.
(And even if by some special circumstance, it was just friendship – the fact that he could hide and lie about something is untrustworthy behavior anyway)
I'd go a step further and say a little schadenfreude might lighten the mood a bit. Big ol' caveat that only OP knows if his Fiancé would find the humour in that approach. If she doesn't, this is probably the worst advice possible.
Not every woman feels that way… sexual assault and rape doesn’t have a gender preference. I do agree however that it often gets diminished for men which is why they often don’t report. Hopefully, that’s changing now albeit, slowly.
So if I was cheated like shit by my partner in every way possible and he cheated on me but said he was sorry and is willing to reconcile, that means everything he did was a “mistake” and I should give him a chance?
She could have just filled for divorce. Like an adult. Instead of fuckin someone else.
Im with your wife here
Do you think it's better for him to stay with someone that isn't attracted to him? One day he will know. Ans then how will he feel knowing you felt that way about him?
Break up.
Just tell him “i'm not happy. I like you a lot as a person, you are truly a great person, but i can sense, feel deep down this isn't the right fit for me. I truly wish you well”
I was married to THIS for 21 years- it doesn’t get better; only infinitely worse. Next thing you know your cell phone is set up as a child’s phone and he gets notifications of every text & call you get ** WITH THE NUMBER IT CAME FROM**. When I finally left, I had no sense of how to go about my day, b/c no one was there directing every hour of it. At 43, I was learning who I was & be. Don’t marry this man.
She needs therapy. She is not only verbally abusing you, she is showing how she will treat your child the moment he disagrees with her.
Give her two cards. One for marriage counselling (although that may be whipping a dead horse at this point). One for a divorce lawyer. AFTER finding out what you'd need to do to seek custody. I'd also begin logging all instances of her being abusive, for sake of proof.
It's up to her. She either drops the sullen and spiteful teenager act and takes the help a counsellor can give, or she loses her marriage and her child.
If she can't control herself in regards to her husband, she won't control herself in regards to your child and NO CHILD deserves to be spoken to how she speaks to people.
If he doesn’t like you, he is not your boyfriend. Don’t date racists.
” dear gf, your entitlement is nearly made us killed. With all love I have for you , I cannot stay with someone so dangerously stupid. I am sure you will find someone else more in your range.”
Yes I think this is the answer. OP might have him on a pedestal so will view his behaviour as helpful where others will view it as annoying.
I get the feeling that he's a bit too intense for most people and just needs to take a back seat sometimes.
If I’m with someone who “knows” an area — no matter what type of place it is — and they give me a warning — for whatever reason, I’m going to trust they have their head screwed on straight and follow their advice.
She's mad that yall got a piece of mail that had the same last name on it? When yall are married? Yeah that's petty. As for constantly dumping on your family for no reason I'd just tell her that she's welcome to feel however she wants about your family but you're not going to listen to it anymore and she can keep those feelings to herself.
I moved a heavy couch on sliders with an injured leg, so easy it was amazing.
This is exactly what I was thinking! The condoms are extremely strong evidence that he didn’t get snipped.