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Please get screen shots of those conversations so you have evidence and get a lawyer. He could delete everything if you tell him you know and deny any of it being true. You do not deserve to go through something like this at the hands of some piece of human garbage and I’m so sorry you had to experience this. I’m wishing you all the best and please go for the jugular he doesn’t deserve to get off easy on this.
Typically I disagree with the commenters on here because they always take one side without taking into account nuisances but in this case, I can’t disagree with anyone here.
You should absolutely file a police report, not because the police will protect you either but because you need to keep a paper trail for in the future if you ever need it.
Then you need to leave immediately. Find a family or close friend who can take you in or swallow your pride and goto a women’s shelter.
This isn’t the way to live and you have to be strong enough to start over without that dude in your life.
In my opinion it’s probably too late here. Seems like dude has caught feelings and if you say you just want to be FWB now, he’ll likely say okay and keep trying to be something more.
Also sounds unhealthy in general with you admitting you’re pretty rude to him, let him go.
OP, please listen to this comment.
Your husband is abusing you 100% of the time. The love you feel from him? It's either toxic or fake.
You work, make money, but have to give him all that money in his personal account and you can't take any without asking for it? He's abusing you 100% of the time with that alone.
Financially speaking, in the laws of the few most developed countries, income from any spouse belongs 50% to one spouse and 50% to the other.
You should be keeping 50% of his income and 50% of your income, then both pay equally for the couple's common expenses and savings, and whatever money is left to each spouse belongs to that spouse in their personal bank account for that spouse's personal expenses or additional savings; obviously asking the other spouse in case of wanting to make a big expense. And bank/credit/financial statements should be shared too to keep each other honest.
Was him not telling you the only reason you were hurt by this?
Remember that the child is not your husband's child legally or socially. He did not donate his sperm to have a child with his young MIL but to help out his father.
Your husband did not knock up his dad's wife unless they had intercourse. To say that he knocked her up is a completely inappropriate way to put it. Pull your head out of your arse and get over it.
Wait until you get married and load the dishwasher “wrong.” All the dishes will be clean, she won’t have had to life a finger for it, but you’ll still be wrong.
Ultimately, only you are responsible for your own happiness. Others may compliment it or detract from it, but if being with her sucks, set her free and find someone who’s not so stressful to be with.
Gaslighting
That is not a general truth at all.
Many young women go out with older men FOR materialistic things.
I'm so happy for you! ? I know it isn't much “advice”, but I'd say: Taking it really slow is a great place to start, if that's what feels right. Especially since this is all so new to both of you. Regarding the sexual aspect: There are so many different things to do together, sexually/physically. Not all men who have sex with men also enjoy anal sex (but you probably know that already). I feel like that's a pretty common misconception though. People like or don't like anal sex, and people are interested in experimenting with it/trying it out or not. If those people are men, women, non-binary folks, gay/bi/straight/queer etc. is not the deciding factor. It's just individual preference. (Obviously there's nothing wrong with liking anal sex. It's just not 'obligatory' or anything). So… with regards to sex (and anal sex especially) taking it slow is wonderful. 🙂
Plus: You two sound both very excited and nervous, so… every little thing you try out (or talk about whether you'd like to try it out) in and outside the bedroom will be super exciting anyways, I guess. 🙂 So… no need for any rush. I'd say: Breathe, enjoy the feelings, keep communicating about worries/insecurities/needs and just do what you enjoy doing together and find out what else you'd like to do together.
There are a lot of live and offline (support) groups around the topic of sexual orientation. Especially for people newly coming out to themselves (as gay or bi f.e.), who have questions or just want to feel a little less alone in a new situation (and maybe make friends, too). I don't know if these are helpful to you/if that's what you need. But there are a lot of resources/places that might help you, if parts of your experiences become overwhelming or you just want to talk to a fellow human, who has had a similiar life experience/went through something similiar to your experience. 🙂
And I find it somehow understandable that this feels more sensitive. It could be simply because it is something so new to you and also pretty unexpected, if I remember correctly from your first post. Getting to know yourself better and finding out something you didn't know yet can be a very vulnerable (and exciting!) experience. (I'm a non-binary person/trans guy, and came out to myself as bi at 24 yo and as trans-masc/non-binary at 29 yo. 🙂 And I'm queer. So… yeah. ? Muliple discoveries, one at a time ?)
I wish you all the best!
I mean, at the end of the day it's completely your decision on whether or not this is a dealbreaker for you. You can definitely find guys who don't watch porn for entertainment, that's for sure. If you plan on staying with him for any amount of time I would seriously recommend trying to get him help, because what you're describing is an addiction to porn. As for what exactly he is watching, that's between you, him, and your ISP lol
Please understand that abusers can fake being the perfect partner for years sometimes to entrap a new target. This feels a lot like a mask slipping, which you should never ignore or excuse. You have a disability and are especially vulnerable to people like that.. so need to take red flags seriously and always maintain boundaries and follow through on consequences of them being broken.
I had undiagnosed ADHD until mid life and I didn't realize until recently, that I had a pattern of letting boundaries and gut feelings get buried because of the insecurity from my symptoms and fear of being alone. I spent way too much time trying to please people that were with me to feel superior and in control..
Dump him sis. There are plenty of men out there that wanna eat the kitty
I guess we will just have to wait and see
Most people who shop at TJ Maxx will know what I said in my comment, but worth a try I guess. TJ Maxx shoppers understand the yellow tag season ? I used to work at Marshall’s which is the same company as TJ Maxx. Shoppers know these things
At a bar sure, specifically dive bars that keep the music kind of low and have cheap drinks. Not at a club, 99.99999% of guys are there for the meat market.
The point her though is that she said she couldn't and as soon as it was someone she was uncomfortable with helping then “magically” she could have helped. This reeks of a self centered way of operating that someone will only help because they feel uncomfortable that someone they dont like will help rather than to be there for their partner. It's a very fair assessment and she admitted it
The English-speaking world is really stupid in this regard because of the rigidity of the laws. If a minor takes a picture of him/herself and never shares it with anyone but that picture gets uploaded to a cloud storage where an AI classifies it as child porn, the entire future of the child could be utterly annihilated as he/she would be a registered sex offender for the rest of his/her life. Even starting over in another country could be made impossible because of difficulty to get a passport and because of the record.
For example, if you're a 16-year-old and are considering seeing a doctor about a skin rash or something in your private parts, and you take a picture in order to be able to see it better (enlarge the picture) or if you take a picture in order to see if a treatment is working, you could wreck your entire life.
Every culture is idiotic about *something*. Anglos are ridiculously prudish about nudity, even the nudity of adults. Anglo cultural imperialism must be kept in check. There is potential for legal trouble thanks to American tech companies and their invasive products that jeopardize privacy. Europe needs to bring the tech companies to heel by enacting stricter privacy laws.
Still abnormal behavior…
It is your body. Not his. And its not like you dont shower or neglect your hygene in any way. Maybe tell him you also have a preference and that he should shave his whole body every day and see how he feels about the “disrespect” when he refuses to.
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“How do I get her to leave “… I’m sorry what ?! Your husband physically abused you and allows abuse to your son and you want HER to leave ??? Dude he a good mom take your kid and run !!
This is awful, very sorry for you and your family. She’s a hoarder, so she is mentally ill. Did your husband share what the conversation with hi Mia like? Can another adult be home too, whiles she’s there?
What Dow your husband think about current situation? I would talk to him, share your concerns and challenge him to fund a silting (it is his mother). Meaning- she can’t be home alone with the kids, she can’t speak to them in that way or she must leave now.
Are there distant relatives on your side or your husband's side of the family that have the features your daughter has? If so, chances are this is just a case of genetics being super bizarre and those recessive genes taking over completely. But if you're really worried about this, do what other people have said and get genetic testing done.
You and your husband need to address this with your mil before your daughter/other kids hear or pick up on it.
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Without a doubt, that this whole mess is my fault for not ending it while i had the chance. And you are totally right I should learn when to get out.
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“He genuinely doesnt care” yet the text message says otherwise as he steeds to believe that Jacob won because hes trans.. Which I highly doubt.
Also what do you mean with “he doesnt care if someone's trans, he'll come at them”? It comes across very bad if you meant it well..
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You misunderstood my post. I said that both must agree before she should be invited to move back in.
So why not just say: Hey. I think it’s best to just be friends if that’s something you’re open to and just forget everything I’ve suggested. If not, I wish all the best”
I’m absolutely certain he will love talking about what he meant and just how deep he is. So yes, just ask him if it was posted publicly.
This is most true, however, many also make light of the situation along the line or invalidated his feelings.
And that, OP, is how you move on. Congratulations. It sounds like you’re doing everything right. Take your time, and enjoy your new sense of self.
Well, she could ask him if he’s been doing any of that this year since they travel to conventions together.
Do I care?? Loser
I'm sorry to hear about the difficult relationship you have with your daughter and the pain that it has caused you. It's understandable that you would want to find a way to repair your relationship with her and support her on her wedding day, but it's also important to respect her boundaries and wishes. If she has told you that she doesn't want you at the wedding, it's important to respect her decision and try to find ways to support her in other ways, even if it's from a distance.
It's understandable that your husband is upset and wants to take action to protect you, but it's important to consider the potential consequences of his actions. If he decides not to attend the wedding, it could cause additional hurt and tension in the relationship between your daughter and him, and it's possible that it could also damage your relationship with your daughter further. It may be helpful for you and your husband to communicate openly and honestly about your feelings and try to find a way to support each other and move forward together.
It's also important to remember that your daughter's behavior and feelings towards you are not necessarily a reflection of your worth as a person or the love that you have for her. It may be helpful for you to seek support from trusted friends, family, or a therapist to help you navigate this difficult situation and process your emotions. It may also be helpful for you to try to practice self-care and focus on taking care of yourself, both emotionally and physically, during this challenging time.
If you're not comfortable telling him “hey your dad keeps making passes at me and it's not okay can you talk to him” because you're afraid of his reaction, he is not the one for you.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Also fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.
Tell him that if no sex bothers him so much, he’s more than welcome to go fuck himself.
Ew seriously?
No no no. This is not safe. Do not have a baby with this monster. DO. NOT.
I think you misunderstood what I was saying. In his brain he believes that since he thought it was okay, then others must too. Including you
Lol
Can't you just run away, but not get married or have a baby?
I don’t see this situation getting any better. What about getting everyone to chip in for a housekeeper to come in a couple of times a week?
Call the police, leave her so both you and your cat can continue living. Posting about money on reddit is poor form and makes this seem doubtful.
First off, all relationships are transactional to some degree. You can give her what makes her happy or she leaves. She gives you what makes you happy or you leave. That's the basic gist of any relationship.
But, your girlfriend is just stingy. I recommend, if you want to stay with her, that you bring the receipt for anything you buy and show it to her and tell her to send you half of the amount. Maybe she'll realize she's getting more from you than you're getting from her and then she'll stop.
But, if it were me, I wouldn't stay with a person like this.
This 100% my husband and I took years to finally say exactly what we liked and what felt best and let me tell you, we were both missing out lol ?
what's there to think about? you two are not at all good for each other. he made you insecure enough in the relationship that you felt the need to go through his phone multiple times, and then go snooping through the rest of his stuff until you came across his journal. that's pretty scummy behavior, except you were proven to be 100% correct. you'd be doing yourself a huge disservice by staying with this fool.
right, but she chooses to be with those people, and she doesn't have to. She wants him to change. She should just go online her life instead of trying to change people that she clearly disrespects.
This is sexual incompatibility. You have two totally different sex drives and it's starting to take a toll. It's understandable that she wants more sex because that's just what her drive is, but it's not fair for her to pressure you into more than what you want.
If you aren't able to come some sort of a compromise that leaves you both satisfied, it might be best to think of parting ways. Sexual incompatibility can be a definite relationship killer.
File a police report.