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Hey Dude, sending you positive vibes and please remember this – life ain't going so well for you right now but find the strength to keep going, practice mindfulness, meditate, hit the gym, try to find it within yourself to forgive your wife and the Universe will work its magic for you. Things WILL get better and you WILL get through this and see better days. ?
This would be a dealbreaker for me and I would leave if I were you.
The ONLY way I’d even CONSIDER staying together after this is if he was just as horrified at himself as you are. I do believe it’s possible for someone to make one mistake and then change. But in order to do that, he’d have to agree that his behavior was upsetting, understand that it would be a valid reason for you to leave, commit to doing internal work with a therapist to understand why he reacted violently to his frustration, spend a lot more time learning about dog behavior and training methods, and agree to only having supervised contact with the dog until he has proven himself more responsible and capable of managing his emotions better. It sounds like your fiancé isn’t doing any of that.
Fucking a lot of emotionally unavailable people when you want an emotional connection? Yeah. Fucking a lot of people when all you want is to fuck a lot of people? Nah, that's rad.
In the real world examples I know of where someone said they wanted a divorce and then backed out, it was because they got overwhelmed thinking about the logistics of leaving and their discomfort with telling people, not because they didn't want the divorce. Eventually, a few months to a year later, they said they wanted the divorce again and went through with it.
If you can't recover from the devastation of him saying that to you, you should use the force of those feelings to prepare to stand on your own two feet. Look into transferring to the dream school or restaring your degree there, keep new money you acquire in a separate account and transfer what you need for household expenses into the account you have now, and start looking for loans or jobs to hold down if you have to go through school without his help.
And I think for your own peace of mind, you should make him walk through which thoughts convinced him to wall back the divorce request and what he really was feeling “for a long time” before he asked.
Hey Dude, sending you positive vibes and please remember this – life ain't going so well for you right now but find the strength to keep going, practice mindfulness, meditate, hit the gym, try to find it within yourself to forgive your wife and the Universe will work its magic for you. Things WILL get better and you WILL get through this and see better days. ?
Honestly if he ups and goes, he’s not serious about the relationship to begin with so might as well move on
This would be a dealbreaker for me and I would leave if I were you.
The ONLY way I’d even CONSIDER staying together after this is if he was just as horrified at himself as you are. I do believe it’s possible for someone to make one mistake and then change. But in order to do that, he’d have to agree that his behavior was upsetting, understand that it would be a valid reason for you to leave, commit to doing internal work with a therapist to understand why he reacted violently to his frustration, spend a lot more time learning about dog behavior and training methods, and agree to only having supervised contact with the dog until he has proven himself more responsible and capable of managing his emotions better. It sounds like your fiancé isn’t doing any of that.
My marriage was nine years my husband died
Fucking a lot of emotionally unavailable people when you want an emotional connection? Yeah. Fucking a lot of people when all you want is to fuck a lot of people? Nah, that's rad.
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Ok. Thank you for your advice ?
In the real world examples I know of where someone said they wanted a divorce and then backed out, it was because they got overwhelmed thinking about the logistics of leaving and their discomfort with telling people, not because they didn't want the divorce. Eventually, a few months to a year later, they said they wanted the divorce again and went through with it.
If you can't recover from the devastation of him saying that to you, you should use the force of those feelings to prepare to stand on your own two feet. Look into transferring to the dream school or restaring your degree there, keep new money you acquire in a separate account and transfer what you need for household expenses into the account you have now, and start looking for loans or jobs to hold down if you have to go through school without his help.
And I think for your own peace of mind, you should make him walk through which thoughts convinced him to wall back the divorce request and what he really was feeling “for a long time” before he asked.