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SofiaStark Public Chat Channel
Date: October 7, 2022
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And we are all chandler wondering if we are back on time.
might be but cant remember something that could trigger that , now i dont know if i should text her back or just wait it out
They've been dating for 5 months, already engaged, have lived together for a month and OP isn't even able to go into work for a whole day anymore on a regular basis.
If she's away from her SO, she starts crying…..you really consider this healthy and normal?
How can she be a gold digger if you’re the one that so easily gave her access to your money? You set the precedence that this is okay, and she got comfortable very quickly. Time to set some boundaries, and be ready for when she leaves you for it.
That’s clearly why she never told him then because what woman wants to keep a child with an unfaithful man, wish I checked that before I commented now
I’ve been in the same position, wasn’t until I was over the guy that I realised I should have left as soon as soon as I was telling myself “he didn’t cheat though” because THAT is the bare minimum in a relationship. Bare in mind though, this was only one girl that you actively checked the messages from. What’s in the messages between him and girls he knows you wouldn’t think to check? He knows you’re actively weary of her and he still was dumb enough to keep the messages. What’s in the ones he wouldn’t think you would check? Honestly, this will just be the tip of the iceberg, especially the way he was so blasé about it AND the fact she never even questioned it.
Just look at it like this, how does your future look with him? And I don’t mean near future, I mean can you envision marriage, kids and growing old with him now you know what you do? If not, he has to go as he has no benefit to your present self.
Good luck b and do some investigating lol sometimes it’s easier to move on when you have proof behind you and sometimes it’s easier if you just let it go and don’t go through the emotional damage proof can entail.
The only thing I would blame him for is not realizing what is happening. Maybe he is too old to give a shit and just agreed with her about something that is obvious to both of them. The trick is to lie and just make her happy – on the other hand dont we lie all the time to make others happy? It is just what is necessary to have a relationship in our world.
What lines does he say your crossing?
But it is her fault that she is dismissing OP’s feelings. It’s easy for her to “just wait and it will pass” when it’s not her who ostracized.
Agree. Also don’t agree with some of the other advice saying she will come around. It warrants discussion to figure out if it was hesitancy or she was just trying to break it to you gently that she doesn’t want kids. Be kind and discuss with a level head to decide where to go next. Kids are definitely a black and white thing! Being forced into parenthood if you don’t want it breeds resentment and will kill your relationship, as will not having the kids you really want just to keep your partner.
She lied because she said she had no money then spent money.
How am I immature for expecting people to actually go to plans that we agree on? If you actually read the post it was too short notice to go with anyone else
Appreciate your answer. Agree absolutely with what you've said and have thought the same before when it's crosses my mind before. I just feel that the relationship cannot go on as it is unfortunately.
Probably
Block his number
No, thank you.
With all due respect, people who made up the rating system for looks didn't make it by those stats qualifications. They literally made it, so 5 is average as it's in the middle. This bullshit rating system wasn't developed by scholars. People who use this rating system also don't use it by yours/books definition.
I would get proof. And prepare like you would for divorce. Go to an attorney drop divorce papers. I don’t know how you come back from this. Pack him a bag have somebody there with you present the evidence tell him he hast to leave and have them sign divorce papers. Or any variation but yes, I would confront him. I would do it with somebody else or in a safe place and I would present him with proof that’s the first thing and tell him he hast to leave immediately.
I don’t think you understand what you’re in not only with the public shame be almost more than you can bear, but he will be in prison if he’s ever caught.
She’s playing you. Why would you go raw inside of a sex worker?
Trust me, it's going to hurt her more. Take it from someone who used to regularly upset people while pushing them away, I used to think that it would hurt them less if I made them angry with me but it really doesn't, it just hurt them more because it was so out of character for me to treat them badly.
She's going to be hurt regardless, but just telling her you don't want to be with her anymore will hurt less and she won't be left thinking if she did anything to make you act like a dickhead.