Do you have ADHD because it can lead to hyperfixations?
This reads like a teen obsession, has anything happened recently to remind you of a stressful time in your teen years that might have knocked you back in your mindset?
Choose someone else you like (I don’t know what else you like but let’s use Beyoncé as an example). Whenever the temptation to watch HS strikes, watch Beyoncé instead.
Whenever you find yourself wanting to watch HS, write down something sweet about your husband – a memory of a shared trip, something about him you love, a quality he possesses, etc
Lastly, celebrity crushes are normal. They don’t mean that you are a bad person or an unfaithful spouse.
Yea, while I understand hesitancy to open up to people given the history of deceit – what kind of world are we going to have if we don’t teach others how to be more considerate, sustainable and kind? :/
he could get over himself and take the damn bus, public transit is awesome and people should use it more, I really wish we had less of an aversion to it here in the US is uber/lyft/rideshare an option? taxi?
You’re so right! I’m going to figure this out asap! Thank you for your response and help!
Telling him anything gives him an in. Not responding and blocking is the way to go.
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Do you have ADHD because it can lead to hyperfixations?
This reads like a teen obsession, has anything happened recently to remind you of a stressful time in your teen years that might have knocked you back in your mindset?
Choose someone else you like (I don’t know what else you like but let’s use Beyoncé as an example). Whenever the temptation to watch HS strikes, watch Beyoncé instead.
Whenever you find yourself wanting to watch HS, write down something sweet about your husband – a memory of a shared trip, something about him you love, a quality he possesses, etc
Lastly, celebrity crushes are normal. They don’t mean that you are a bad person or an unfaithful spouse.
You shouldn't be faking it. Who does that help? Tell him straight up that hes not giving you any orgasms.
What do you mean by a banger exactly?
Yea, while I understand hesitancy to open up to people given the history of deceit – what kind of world are we going to have if we don’t teach others how to be more considerate, sustainable and kind? :/
he could get over himself and take the damn bus, public transit is awesome and people should use it more, I really wish we had less of an aversion to it here in the US is uber/lyft/rideshare an option? taxi?