I find it really strange that a woman with a low libido that only has sex every six months all of a sudden wants to have an open relationship. So the obvious conclusion is she has already found a new partner.
I'm terrified of damaging or losing gifts. I started Journaling. I take pictures of the gift and maybe a picture of me using said gift, then put it in my journal and I write about it. What it is, who it's from, how it made me feel to receive the gift, I felt using it for the first time, etc. That way even if the gift gets damaged or lost, the memory doesn't.
Been together for four years, do you have a line of communication to his friend? Could you just ask directly instead of getting your bf to ask? I think this would be easiest for everyone.
You think she is beautiful is a wonderful thing but if she doesn't feel beautiful about herself then it will overflow into the bedroom. Having children changes a woman's body and will make a beautiful woman insecure. Walks with the family is great it will motivate her to do more.
Most commenters filled in the gaps of my situation and seems like that was extended to any comments that were in favour of me or counter to the main narrative of advice.
Yikes, there is a LOT of victim blaming here. And it's fucking disgusting. OP was drunk…too drunk to consent to anything.
Who's to say Op didn't get date raped drugged. Because blackouts aren't common if you only have a few drinks in you.
Op go get a rape kit done. And if there's evidence of it, you're able to get justice. You may not be able to get your bf back, but you may be able to figure out what exactly happened
Thanks for your opinion, I’m still working on myself and, the fact is that I will have to make a decision sooner or later, thanks again for taking the time to help 🙂
my dad always told me not to date or marry someone I’m trying to save. for what it’s worth, he’s been divorced twice.
I find it really strange that a woman with a low libido that only has sex every six months all of a sudden wants to have an open relationship. So the obvious conclusion is she has already found a new partner.
I get that you can get to undetectable levels and that the risk of passing it through sex is then incredibly minimal.
Current scientific consensus is that it's actually zero. As in no chance of spread through sex with undetectable levels.
I'm terrified of damaging or losing gifts. I started Journaling. I take pictures of the gift and maybe a picture of me using said gift, then put it in my journal and I write about it. What it is, who it's from, how it made me feel to receive the gift, I felt using it for the first time, etc. That way even if the gift gets damaged or lost, the memory doesn't.
Been together for four years, do you have a line of communication to his friend? Could you just ask directly instead of getting your bf to ask? I think this would be easiest for everyone.
Maybe check if he’s slept with your mom as well. This guy is a dog, i respect his skills
You think she is beautiful is a wonderful thing but if she doesn't feel beautiful about herself then it will overflow into the bedroom. Having children changes a woman's body and will make a beautiful woman insecure. Walks with the family is great it will motivate her to do more.
Oh, honey, have some self respect. Dump this guy.
It’s unfortunate.
Most commenters filled in the gaps of my situation and seems like that was extended to any comments that were in favour of me or counter to the main narrative of advice.
I appreciate you for commenting.
idk i never had a bf that would give nicknames to girls so it feels weird
Yikes, there is a LOT of victim blaming here. And it's fucking disgusting. OP was drunk…too drunk to consent to anything.
Who's to say Op didn't get date raped drugged. Because blackouts aren't common if you only have a few drinks in you.
Op go get a rape kit done. And if there's evidence of it, you're able to get justice. You may not be able to get your bf back, but you may be able to figure out what exactly happened
I never said anything remotely like that.
And OP asked for anyone with experience, for which I qualify.
Congratulations to you are in order, because you got to realize this guy ain't it only 3 months in! Leave & don't look back.
Ok that's a no for me then
Thanks for your opinion, I’m still working on myself and, the fact is that I will have to make a decision sooner or later, thanks again for taking the time to help 🙂