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I don’t buy anyone gifts because I am required to. I get gifts for people I care for
This story reeks of bias from OP against the husband. The sister probably did bad things to have the husband so fed up.
Your husband loves and adores you. You absolutely need to tell him what you heard. Keeping this from him is just going to cause more damage in the long run because he will be upset and hurt that you didn't feel like you could talk to him when he dies finally find out. Your nasty MIL was wrong on so many levels. I hear a very strong, determined woman behind the words written. Lean on your husband and let him know. He may very well go NC but ultimately that is his choice. His first priority is you.
Hahah I was being sarcastic, I really don’t see her finding someone “better” though. I’m pretty cool tho
Go for it! Quite polite of you to ask, I appreciate it.
When she's out from the house. Set the house with fire. I mean camera surveillance shit and stuff. Than just wait for her to be in action's again.
gah this is a bit of a nude subject because while i do believe you're right for thinking that, i feel like it's really important for you to see her side, too. sitting down and communicating the situation from both sides is very important in this scenario. how is she feeling about this? have you guys been together for a while? what does this mean for the two of you going forward? do you plan to have any relationship with your child, and, if you do, how would that play into how your life is currently and how will it affect the relationship. if you can't sit down and have this conversation, then i don't think that you can continue the relationship. communication is very, very important and she's surely feeling a bunch of different emotions. but it's rlly just up to you! if you feel as though your trust for her is broken, and unable to be fixed, then leaving would be the topic for you guys to speak about
Bastard child isn’t a thing. That is toxic and you should never say it to the child or anyone else 2. Morning after pill only works if you are less than like 175lbs or something. It also works by stopping ovulation, which if she was already in the middle of, it wouldn’t do anything. 3. If you want to be involved in the child’s life, reassure her that. Reassure that even though you don’t love her, you will have love for her because she’s having your child. Make sure to be there for you at every step of the way to make sure she knows your serious. If you don’t want to be involved, let her know now. You can give your rights away, do it sooner than later. She made her decision and it’s her body so she can do that, but you don’t have to be involved if you don’t want to, that’s your right. Just let her know now before she gets more emotional involved
yeah and then she ghosted me too ?
He’s an abuser in disguise. He didn’t care about you, doesn’t respect your boundaries and at the time you were your most vulnerable- he treated you like a flesh light for his dick. Get out. This guy is not the one.
I don't know that anything we say will help with her, but perhaps it will teach you something for the next relationship.
Remember that porn is not real life, and watching two flat figures to which you have no connection can make things look nude which would feel emotionally devastating if they were done by your partner in real life. And to people who are not porn-addled enough to be desensitized to the emotional response to their partner sleeping with someone else, even in theory, even suggesting something which would devastate them shakes them up a lot.
Understand that for many monogamous people, it's important to them that their partner have the same attitudes towards monogamy and commitment as they do. By suggesting this, you have told her without a doubt that your view on monogamy, and the way you use it to define your relationship, is fundamentally different than hers. Someone doesn't have to cheat or lie for you to lose all feelings for them. Wanting to sleep with other people is enough.
Everything about this relationship is awful. He doesn't respect your boundaries and blames you for that. He cheats and blames it on being drunk. He lies.
Get out already. This will not get better.
This is a difficult and sensitive topic.
Honestly though, your best bet is to lay everything out on the table with her. Relationships are complex at the best of times, but it can be much more so when you add any kind of dysphoria on top of it.
At the very least if you have everything laid out, you can problem solve together about how to over come these barriers, or decide mutually if anyone doesn't think it's worth the trouble.
You could also benefit from looking into what being trans is. Educate yourself to give yourself the best chances of understanding her and her situation. I'm sure she would appreciate it too!
Good luck!
you mean maybe he’s projecting?
But your spouse doing something you're not comfortable with does not automatically make it cheating. It's not like she's sexually engaging with any of the people looking at her photo.
Even if it was cheating, he really has no right to take away an adult's computer and phone and make the decision for her. He can communicate his discomfort and if she goes through with it, he can make the decision to leave. But physically preventing an adult from doing something (unless that something is physically dangerous to themselves or someone else) is where it gets controlling.
You leave. Do not let her control you.
And I wouldn't recommend staying in contact. I know you want to stay friends, but this relationship isn't healthy. If friendship grows years down the line, fine. But for now, and for some time in the future, please go no contact.
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Then you both aren’t compatible. She’s not okay with you going on a holiday with your female best friend just the two of you, while you would be okay with her doing the same thing but with male friend. Both are valid but the two of you have to agree on it.
Yea, I wasn't directing my comment to you, but just to the commonality of the behaviour. It's gross.
And he “has a thing for Asian girls”
She's jealous that you will have a big wedding with bridesmaids and the works and she will have a small wedding.
Ooooof I missed the ages and math. But I agree, he had six years to do better. That’s the better part of a decade. He deserves the opportunity to change and grow but not with OP.
No no. “Did my now wife, your cousin, who is 5 years younger, suck your dick, while she was underage and you were 4 years past 18?” That would be my question.
I once had an ex with a Turkey baster situation, never leave the boys behind
Please please please leave your sick abuser no one deserves treatment like this.
So he left a bra hanging on the door for months just to collect germs and mould and then give it back to the girl one day? How OBLIVIOUS can you get? So desperate..
I don't think you really pushed her away. We shouldn't take lightly the event of her grandma passing away; whom she was really close to as you mentioned. On top of that, her parents divorcing.
There's a lot of grieve and stress in her personal environment right now. This makes it really difficult to stay interactive with other people outside. Fact is, a lot of people during these moments want to be left alone because it's just too much happening at the same time.
I don't think you can draw any conclusions on whether or not she is mentally secure and is thinking of you in any particular way; bad or good. All you can tell is she's dealing with a lot around herself.
You always have a choice. You can stick around and message her from time to time to check up on her. This will let her know you care; and if she's really interested she'll reply back.
In the other hand you may feel like you aren't reading for a commitment and you might have to educate yourself a bit further regarding your own personal issues.
I suggest following Jay Shetty and Teal Swan on the Youtube channel. They offer alot of phylosophical insight on relationships and the self being.
You're welcome. Take care of yourself. Young adulthood is not a fun time for everybody but you will get through it too.
Shit partner
Can’t see this ending well.
You were the AP. Don’t be surprised if this happens to you too.
I always thought women who made posts like this were dumb for staying with their husbands. Never thinking it’d happen to me because up until now he had never said or done something like this to me. I feel silly.
And to your first statement – funny of you to assume I will carry another child for him.
Can you elaborate on this part?
despite it having been a joint decision!
Did you and your husband have a specific conversation in which you agreed to have a child? Can you remind him of that conversation and what was said?
I’m exhausted just reading all this. Seriously, get out of this toxic merry-go-round and start a new life. Once the baby is born get a DNA-Test and go from there. But her? Kick her to the curb.
Stop being a piece of shit. Stop fucking other people.
Nope. She doesn't want to commit to you and wants to play the field. Your best bet is to date around, don't hold your breath she may come back after exploring things with other guys or she may not. Do not let her keep you from finding someone more compatible because that's what she is doing. I'd treat the break up as permanent and don't reach out, if she does be indifferent you don't need to deal with this stuff right now.
Yes do her a huge service and cut contact with her because I am sure she doesn’t deserve a friend who calls her a « h*e » to strangers live!.
Your jealousy is despicable.
But how can I make sure it's not something that is wrong with me? I don't want to hurt my partner, she is madly in love with me and I know she is extremely attached to me to the point that sometimes she says she'd rather be dead than lose me. This terrifies me. And besides, I do have a lot of feelings for her, I'm just not sure if I “feel it” anymore like I did 9 years ago. I was a looooot more attached to her even 5 years ago to the point that I'd miss her and cry when she was away for 10 days. Nowadays, she could be gone for a whole month on a business trip and I'd feel like I have some freedom around the house and in my life. I feel terrible to admit this… but I just feel like all I need right now is to be single for a while and focus on myself. But I'm terrified it's just a phase and that I might regret it, however it's been on my mind for 2 years now and these feelings are just growing stronger and I'm terrified.