Tell him he needs to get sober if he wants to remain in the relationship. If he doesn’t do it, break up with him. He’s clearly struggling, but substance abuse is a part of the cycle for him. He needs to get sober.
You can't “not accept” someone's break-up. If someone breaks-up with you, they've broken up with you, and you don't have to like it, but you have to accept it. It's time to grieve and move on.
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Tell him he needs to get sober if he wants to remain in the relationship. If he doesn’t do it, break up with him. He’s clearly struggling, but substance abuse is a part of the cycle for him. He needs to get sober.
2 years. You're 21. This ain't it.
You can't “not accept” someone's break-up. If someone breaks-up with you, they've broken up with you, and you don't have to like it, but you have to accept it. It's time to grieve and move on.