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Date: October 18, 2022
Well this is insight to your future with being apart of his family. This is a really bad living situation. It sounds like there is a lot of contempt between all of these people. It's much easier to point the finger at you than address the real problems between them…
Here's the important part…You have a place to go. Aren't you tired of walking on eggshells at home? Youre living with people that really don't want you there. None of their problems are yours to own. Whether or not his Mom can pay her rent or what she spends her money on is your problem. Personally I'd disassociate myself from all of that drama and live with my parents. If your Bf wants to find you a place to live! together, then he'll find one. What he won't do for you another man happily will.
Hate to say it OP, but the problem isn’t you seeing something that’s not there, it’s that you’re totally blind.
This guys wife knows exactly what’s happening and she intervened to try to put an end to it. I think it’s about time you wake up and do something yourself.
Get a new boyfriend like if he doesn’t make you feel safe then why be with him
Bro, I’m 40 years old and I’ve never experienced that either. You reacted the right way. I agree with the others who are saying stuff like she isn’t ready to be dating. She will cringe over this when she looks back on it.
No we just feel for your former friend. Many a woman will empathise with her losing who she thought was a friend.
It's also how you are acting. It isn't the way to make people empathise with you. It sounds entitled, and as I said previously, childish.
Like you got rejected and now your on here asking for what exactly? You want us to say she's wrong and should consider your feelings? What outcome did you hope to achieve by making this post?
You are the other woman
Playing devil's advocate on this one:
A. Where you an official couple at 4 months? Because that matters. Some people assume the other person is dating. If you had a conversation and things were crystal clear with both of you then consider it cheating and, obviously, disrespect.
B. The things she said to her friend are not necessarily disrespectful (unless she used disrespectful language). This was in her phone. This was never meant for his consumption—diary rules apply.
I mean, if she cheated just bounce. That one is easy.
The sex thing…I mean it's up to you. Sex should have gotten better over time so she might not think those things are true anymore. Now it's up to you to decide whether you're fine with the frequency and her desire for you.
Also, just talk to her about all of this. Be open and let nature take it's course.
Move on. There's no such thing as a break, not really. She dumped you, and waiting around for her to clarify the situation isn't good for either of you. You're not a convenience that she can put down and pick up at will.
LDRs seldom work out. Look for someone who lives nearby.
Nope. Not at all. Only time sleep sex is acceptable is if there is prior and continued consent. My fiance and I love it but we always make sure one another is good with it.
Oh hell no, I'd be putting my foot down hot. If you can't break up/dump him right away – next weekend rolls around you contact the BM and tell her she needs to come pick up her daughter because you told your BF you were not available to care for her. Tell her how long he's been dumping his parenting time onto you. Undoubtedly, they will both freak out and there will be a massive shitstorm. Dude's had it coming. Use the wave to both boot him out and dump him.
OK I stopped after I read the title so sue me. But never ever do something sexually with somebody else she don’t want to. When you open a relationship from monogamous, usually the relationship is over. Because the person wants to cheat and is trying to find a legal way to do it, and not entirely lose you, so they figure if they can get you to agree to it and not leave them and have the pleasure of playing around. I’ll do it.
Never ever tape some thing with somebody ever especially if you don’t want to they’re not going to delete it number one and number two it’s degrading and humiliating when you don’t even want to be part of it. So you have a big problem, your boyfriend doesn’t value you and I believe your relationship if it is not over now it’s going to be shortly. I did finally read through it, and I still feel exactly the way that I said. The relationship is mostly over.
Grass is always greener.
Block him. Send her everything. She deserves to know who she’s married to.
I have my family on a 3 hours bus distance, I’m planning on visiting them one weekend but it’s quite expensive and my work hours are not the best for a quick stop. My closest friends are also travelling on the first week of March. My best friend is staying and offered to stay with me, so I’m considering that for a few days. I guess I’m just figuring out I got no routine at all for this year and a few months from 2022, and it’s bringing me “I can’t do anything by myself or at all” vibes.
Even if you’re ugly, ugly ppl deserve love too
Pffff. Girl, let me tell you a secret.
If your boo wants to cheat you, he will cheat you. With this friend, with a random girl, with a call girl, with anyone. Relationships require trust. You trust your boo will be a decent person and he trust you to be a decent person. That's the gist.
What you showed him is that you are an insecure controlling person who is afraid of a platonic relationship and he shows you that he has no concept of loyalty for people that matters to him. Because I will tell you, if my boo asked me to stop talking to my friend because he is insecure, I will say buy before he could finish the request.
Next time he will just lie to you because you with 36 Damm years old is as childish as a teenager. And when he finds someone that he thinks he can benefit more than you he will dump you because he easily dumped a long time friend.
Enjoy your “relationship”.
You might have done him a favor by having him back away from her. Not all long term friendships need to stay.
Dude, you’ve got a whole decade+ on this chick….what the fuck do you really have in common with her? Leave that shit alone and move on.
Listen to her, this lie can make a man afraid to commit with you, It can be pretty bad, you said no one's life got damaged so there's no reason to tell; The thing it's in the past. Thinking about it and if you should tell or not only will achieve one goal: Make a past lie that should be buried since it was resolved get in the way of your life now.
I need you to know that your simple suggestion set off a light bulb in my brain. For years I’ve been working on helping her contain her own space—she has her own room that’s an office, and I have my desk essentially in a corner in our dining room. But everything in our home is still generally cramped and stuffy. I can honestly say the idea of getting my own space that’s just for me has literally never crossed my mind. We’re planning to move in the next year, so I would like to search for a place with an extra room that I can have as my own comfortable space. It doesn’t fix everything, but I think having something that’s mine to retreat to would help a lot.
Thank you so much!
Regardless of what you do moving forward, your wife already cheated on you and now want your permission to continue.
ENM is supposed to be ETHICAL, not sneaking around your spouses back, sexting, making arrangements, changing up the agreements all the time, leaving you redused to tears and all that. The fact that she knows this is hurting you and still wants to do it doesnt been too well.
Yeah, I understand that the situation itself was already confusing (“close friends?!? I guess we were kind of close back in 2013???”). But your responses and asking her how she’s been is a very kind thing to do in general, whether you really were close friends or not. Never stop being kind, even if it’s awkward. The world needs more kindness. 🙂
Ah I suspected as much. Now I think it’s clearer as to what his actual issue is. I also suspect that as you get closer, physically as well as emotionally, this ‘not till married’ issue will quietly disappear.
I think that first 911 call is bingo here. It sounds like schizophrenia. Schizophrenia often manifests in delusions that “the government is spying on me” or people are conspiring against them, or aliens are trying to contact them. They suspect their house is bugged, with hidden cameras, microchips implanted into them while they sleep etc. The fact that this first 911 call didn't lead to you getting a call from the police tells me there probably isn't any cameras or spying and it probably is a delusion.
How long were you guys together? Do you know any of her close friends or family? If were me, I'd maybe try to have a conversation with one of them about it just because this is absolutely batshit crazy behavior and I've watched enough true crime to know that people like this turn up missing. I remember watching a documentary on a young woman who went missing after having similar delusions (last CCTV footage of her is her going across her apartment complex parking lot barefoot and in tiny shorts and a tank top, not dressed for the weather).
Now, this is all on the presumption you're completely innocent here. That you did not put any spy software or keylogger on her computer, you don't know any of her passwords, you didn't stick a nanny cam somewhere in her place. Because if you did something even remotely us, that changes the whole time of the story.