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Whatever issues he has- and I am not dismissing them just summarizing them all by saying “issues”- he had them before you got married, so getting married shouldn't have suddenly made him unable to work, unable to have sex, and unable to function as a partner.
So, he either figures you are stuck with him now and is showing his true self, or something happened that caused him to backslide/slide in to this new person. Either way, you should leave.
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Your husband is stuck, and you don't need to be stuck too.
I’m happy for them. I still can’t though
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Leave him.
Whatever issues he has- and I am not dismissing them just summarizing them all by saying “issues”- he had them before you got married, so getting married shouldn't have suddenly made him unable to work, unable to have sex, and unable to function as a partner.
So, he either figures you are stuck with him now and is showing his true self, or something happened that caused him to backslide/slide in to this new person. Either way, you should leave.
Leave now before you are the financial hook to support him. Leave now before he drains you of more money and time.
And, if he is truly in crisis, then leaving is also a good idea. He is unwilling to get help and so not having you as a safety net may be the motivation he needs to get help. My sister was married to a man who wasn't great on his best days, but after they had a kid he just stopped working and stopped trying. He created some health problems for himself and then of course was depressed because he wasn't doing good. She finally worked up the courage to leave him, and you know what? He moved in with his parents who could be around for him more- my sister had to work and be the sole child care- and the shock of having to leave helped him go to the doctor's, get a job, and start to resemble an adult again.
Your husband is stuck, and you don't need to be stuck too.
Maybe you enjoy giving head and she doesn’t. It’s not about “who returns the favor” you should enjoy the sexual action you’re doing.
You are his beard & now he wants his boy in your house. Hell no.
Do not plan this sham second wedding! Get your finances in order and get in touch with an attorney about divorce.
Yes. Though, I was impling that if op gave it to his ex, she'd end up selling it herself instead of keeping it as a reminder
I mean, if the music is good, and they only kick me out at 6AM…I’m staying till 6AM. What’s wrong with that?