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Lol she realized the grass is not greener and whoever she was fucking has left her in the dirt. Sorry OP. block her for your own hood
Go to therapy. Even if it's alone.
All I'm hearing is that he's fucking someone else and this is the tale he's spinning to make you feel like you're losing anything else but dead weight when this ends.
And it absolutely should end.
I think you need to work out what the vision looks like in the future for the both of you and see how your finances fit in those plans. You're not wrong for wanting your part-time job life. It seems great! Your gf isn't wrong either for thinking you did accrue more income for your future. That said, what's that future?
For example, my bf and I would like to get a place in the future, but that can't happen right now. However, we still have a housing list to get an idea of places we'd like to live, the types of homes, and, most importantly, the cost. We may not be acting on it right now, but at least we know what our housing budget could look like and can preemptively plan.
So, I'd say sit down, talk about those plans, and see if your combined incomes as they currently stand can make those plans a reality. If it can't, see if it's possible to compromise/adjust.
Good luck!
Actions speak louder than words.
This post doesn't provide enough detail about your personality (other than your physical appearance and finances).
Maybe that's the problem (how you communicate relate to and/or are perceived by men etc).
I suggest therapy and feedback from with a male therapist.
I also suggest tightening your screen.
Your dates are all over the place suggesting you don't know what to look for on dating apps; and/or don't know what you want in a life partner.
Finally, weight is a huge issue with men. It's common for men and women to disagree over what is ” a little overweight “.
Why are you with him? Seriously? He is a walking AH. Break up, block, and move on.
I don’t need to post everything here..
But what he’s suggesting is surgery. That you don’t need.
You married at 18 for the military benefits, didn't you?
From what I see, asking him to put social media on hold, won't solve the problem. You can ask to see his messages to see if he is cheating (sexting, suggestive messages, crossing emotional boundaries, etc.), and I think you should. He's obviously crossing boundaries any sensible man should be able to see. Given both your stances on things like porn and the internet etc. this should be obvious.
It could be somewhat innocent in just liking pictures and that's that, but the only way to find out is by looking at his messages, unfortunately. Some people do “like for like” etc. and that could be the case.
Regardless, I think you need couples counselling or premarital. This is going to be an issue for the rest of your life and you both need to either resolve this or realise this won't work. Hopefully, counselling can put that into focus and potentially reveal deeper issues within the relationship.
Are you going to be looking over his shoulder for the rest of your life because you don't trust what he's doing live? Will this spill over to real life interactions? That's exhausting.
It's great he sought help for his porn addiction. Good on him, I applaud you both for getting through that, but he's moving into dangerous waters and I dare say he knows it. Another thing to remember is, with addictions there is always going to be an ebb and flow. I believe it takes a mental toll and they become fatigued and go looking for other ways to get a “fix”. You just need to be able to support him and be there for when he's at a stand still or taking steps back, but he also needs to hold himself accountable. I don't know if that's what's happening here. I don't really understand porn addiction, but I know it's just as serious as other addictions.
If you feel you need to put your wedding on hold, do it. It's better to do that and figure things out, than end up divorcing. Look after your mental health too.
Social media is a cancer on society.
No, lol i’ve been in relationships with people with BPD and i also have friends who have BPD. So, no. what are you going to do about it? nothing
lol that’s true, what happened to the awkward teen makeup phase? I feel like I either see kids with zero makeup or kids with amazing technique that I still can’t even come close to. ? I need more YouTube tutorials I guess.
but yeah I just saw that OP’s wife isn’t a fan of makeup or fancier clothes so that’s not a solution for her anyway. guess they’ll just have to wait for time to solve the problem for them. I can’t believe their town is so aggressive about it though, I’ve only ever dated men close to my age and I’ve had a stranger make a judgy comment about perceived age differences twice in my life, that’s it. I wouldn’t want to live in such a weird place anyway… if they’re this hostile about a non-existent age gap, imagine what else they’re judgmental about.
If you want to tell him then I’d change jobs first. The risk of this information torpedoing your relationship is too big to risk it getting around the work place and following you around in your career.
Personally, unless he’s flat out said sex work in any capacity is a deal breaker for him, I wouldn’t tell him. You are allowed to let some things stay in the past.
If you’re not 100%, or even 1%, uncomfortable, it’s still absolutely okay for you to bring this up to HR. In terms of workplace politics, in my opinion, this is the proper way of handling this situation.
If you’re worried about how to approach this, or are unsure if he’s actually committing a violation, your company should be able to provide you with a copy of your policies upon request (if you don’t already have one). Reading them over may give you a better idea of how you want to approach this situation.
Lock the fucking door and get a lawyer. Don't move out, is there a prenup? He can't kick you out just because you don't let him watch you in the bathroom. The fact he threatened that is a huge red flag. Maybe take a look at other parts of your relationship, you don't jump from fine to ” youhave to move out if you won't do what I say”
I mean women break up all the time to hook up with a different guy. It's the primary form of cheating women engage in because it's arguably not cheating. So the fact that less than a day later you were lining someone up seems suspect to say the least.
You learn as a man to spot this behavior and see it for what it is. I mean I had a girlfriend break up with me, about a week later I was dating someone new off a dating app and about a month after the initial break up gf #1 was back trying to reconnect. She was super upset that I had replaced her because her plan was to try out new guy, if it worked don't look back, if it didn't come back to me, she was upset she was left with no one.
There are two elements to minor little screw-ups like this: whether you consider how it made the person feel, and what you actually did.
On the first part, you already acknowledged the wrong here and apologized. There's really nothing more you can do. In my view, you did the “right thing” by reaching out to apologize.
On the last part — what you actually did — there is nothing you can do to right this wrong. There is no apology or after-action that corrects for the mistake. It's a minor one, but the lesson you need to learn is: do better, and don't accidentally ghost people you care about.
This is a really minor thing. You really shouldn't beat yourself up about it. But it's important to internalize that when you make mistakes like this, apologies are important but ultimately do not solve anything. Your actions are what count.
Sounds like your “best friend” is trying to kill you and you're gonna make it REAL easy for him to succeed, OP.