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Nah, going through phones should absolutely be an acceptable thing as long as it doesn’t become unhinged. I have boundaries I want upheld in a relationship and open phone access gives me peace of mind. It’s so weird how people will literally online with someone who’s ass they have licked and be like no the phone is private. Unless the relationship is open.
You’re being manipulated though friend. I used to talk to someone like this who made me feel like I was the only girl in the world as long as I didn’t bring up his phone bs. The guy I am talking to now gives me full access anytime I want. No restrictions.
what is your gender, please.
She was unfair to you, she wanted to not be unfair with herself; how do you know she didn't hook up in the time you were apart? her words? or you had other reliable source?
You like the physical aspect of your relationship and that is fine; keep it physical and nothing more; my guess is she cheated already, if not physically, at least mentally, probably both
Does she have any friends? Does she ever go out or do any kind of physical activity?
Maybe she should start writing her thoughts down in a notebook whenever a crisis occurs – works every time.
Also, you should definitely have a conversation with her about your mental health, how certain things are making you feel and any other thoughts or concerns that you have, maybe even mention that You Also Need Support.
If she truly loves you, like you do love her, I'm pretty sure she must understand. 🙂
Other people have told you this, but I want to emphatically state: first to file has the advantage, even in areas where they supposedly don't. It helps to have access to these materials, so I encourage you to screenshot, sent to yourself from her phone, and then delete the records on her phone instead.
In some cases, it may or may not be worth figuring things out. In my experience, it isn't, but no one here can speak to your relationship or your state of mind.
Good luck.
Well over 4 years ago.
She's says it's just the taste and she has a very bad gag reflex
You are trapped and alone because you are allowing yourself to be trapped and alone…Lawyer, job and new place. Things are just gonna get worse otherwise , look at what you are allowing right now. You can bet its just gonna escalate.
You’re ignoring the actual point. And not denying it’s a fake post. And not answering relevant questions that would put things to bed. Is this all made up? Inquiring minds keep asking. And you aren’t really doing yourself any favors here. Come on dude.
Even if she didn’t cheat she is already creating an exit strategy. She is breaking up with you. Sorry.
Your current bc is abusive. The “sit there and take it” line of thinking is found in perpetrators of domestic abuse. It’s a black and white way of thinking that doesn’t reflect healthy ways of thinking about power and agency. There are YouTube videos/documentaries about petmrepetatoes where you can observe this.
Another great resource is “why does he do that inside the mind of angry and controlling men” by Lundy Bancroft.
Now would be a great time to leave. You wouldn’t be over reacting because this is is a red flag. Abuse always escalates (especially when abusers think you’re “locked in”). You’re not isolated from friends and family yet (one of the more damaging tactics of abuse) so it’s best to leave while you still have support and clarity.
Yep that is totally fair, I am not going to claim to have the best communication skills either! I know I have been apprehensive to bring this up because as soon as he is finished doing it, its such a relief to me that I don't want to bring it up and “rock the boat” and start it all over again. I am planning to have a discussion with him once he snaps out of his current mood, just trying to sort out all my talking points…
Tbh I wouldn’t even want to know. Just call up a lawyer and start the divorce process. You will only be heartbroken once she tells you the truth
Google “use of force continuum” this is is what will be used to test your reasoning for the degree of force used.
Your money, your rules, and your decision.
Karsh
I'm sure she is but you're definitely correct that any endgame is going to be messy. Someone will get hurt unless her and her partner are already not doing well (which may likely be the case).
There is no such thing as 'custody' here in the UK. There are residence orders, parental responsibility, etc., but not 'custody' in the US sense.
But you are right, he does need a legally binding agreement to protect his access to his child.