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She is Violette and he is David, 24 y.o.
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Date: January 17, 2023
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Yes, willfully conceal. He said friends plural on purpose even though he knew from the start he was only helping one person. And that’s because he didn’t want to be open and honest that it was one female friend. That was a CHOICE to lie by omission and you can’t tell me it wasn’t. Maybe he did that because gf tends to be unreasonable about female friends and it’s actually a sympathetic lie . Maybe he did that because he was tired and didn’t want to deal with it right now. Maybe he did that because he IS feeling some type of way about is old friend. Whatever the case, he lied. I don’t think it’s crazy to point that out.
I agree that it’s unhealthy for a SO to police friendships and it’s unhealthy for a SO to project trust issues from a previous relationship onto this new one. But everyone else here was already talking about that, so I didn’t feel that side needed to be added to. My question was, could the gf have a valid point? And I think yes, she could, bc again OP did lie and act kinda sketchy. I don’t think it’s crazy to be upset about this. To break up no contact does seem like an overreaction to an isolated incident, but I would bet it’s not an isolated incident. Whether that’s because OP has communication issues or because gf has poisoned the dynamic I’m not sure. But this feels like a straw and camel’s back situation.
Well, I texted him this:
March 3rd-15th, I’ll be there for that wedding. I’ll be pretty busy but can try to squeeze you in at some point. Let me know if you want to meet up.
Does that have anything to do with it?
He confessed he manipulated his ex and emotionally abused her for 7 years she had to go to a mental institution for awhile. He told me he never mentioned that to me at the beginning because he knew if he had I wouldn’t be with him right now.
Friend, he is in the process of doing this to you, as well.
I think what OP said was cruel and callous, but reducing it to “she told him something he didn't like” is a bit unfair.. she indulged his fantacy of having kids and didn't mention not wanting to have kids for 5 years until after they were engaged.. not saying she was trying to manipulate him, but relationship ending curve balls like that can make you feel like you were being manipulated