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MAKE ME DARLING TREMBLE UNDER YOU AND SQUIRM IN NAKED LANGUOR [562 tokens remaining]
Date: January 13, 2023
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MAKE ME DARLING TREMBLE UNDER YOU AND SQUIRM IN NAKED LANGUOR [562 tokens remaining]
She should leave. Saying the n word is racist. Doubling down that you “love to say it” means you are super racist.
agree with this guy! Tell her you are going out with your ex because she needed closure and watch her ignite! She sounds like she doesnt care about you whatsoever, so im still not sure why you got back with her and why you continue to be her doormat. Quit wasting time bro! End this fiasco now. I bet she was the one that needed closure from the ex, not him.
But then I think, is avoiding the conflict the best thing to do, when it’s having a lasting effect on me? I get so upset that I can’t just talk to him about it.
I’ve tried to tell him it’s gaslighting before, but he, like a lot of men probably, see that word and think “that couldn’t possibly be me” – it’s naked. It’s not ok to be a gaslighter, but acknowledging that you’ve come across like that and making active change is.
A person who loves you will never put their hands on you. I don’t think you appreciate how close to death you came. If you were blacking out you were literally minutes from being dead. The next time he may not let go. You need to stay away and never go back.
That's something I had to learn myself. You have to pay attention to how people respond to the word no.
This:
if my dog isn’t welcome then I don’t feel comfortable coming over either.
Is enough for me right there.
I love dogs, but I can't stand when people bring them over unannounced.
Apologizing would validating her behavior.
I bet some of the guys she is hanging out with on her travels like her..best she doesn't hang out with any of them..Probably best that neither of you hang out with anyone, as there may be some interest in you all from outside parties.
anyways, you either trust your partner or you dont. sounds like she doesnt trust you at all and wants you isolated. I wouldnt put up with it but then again, I dont give my partners any reason to think I would cheat on them, so they don't make those type of demands in the first place.
There’s no hope for trust when she accuses based on assumptions
Get out
HAHAHA I love this I’ll definitely do this
He's love bombing you and is clearly controlling/abusive. RUN
Yes. It's called Living apart together (LAT) and it's more and more common among romantic couples. Google for details.
My partner and I live! about 2 hours apart by train, and we've been doing so for years.
Before the pandemic we were going back and forth on the weekends, but we do things a bit differently since the pandemic, but still spend a good amount of time together and a bit more time apart overall. It wouldn't work for everyone, but it works well for us. There are trade-offs (travel expenses, maintaining 2 households, not being able to see each other as often as we sometimes wish, etc.) but there are also a lot of benefits, especially for 2 people who already need a lot of alone time/introverts who are willing to make the effort to make things work.
I'm always amazed by the number of married couples who tell us how jealous they are of our arrangement, wishing they could do the same thing.
It's code for him abusing you being your fault.
What to do? It depends on if this issue is a showstopper for you. Only you can answer that.
Do you plan to have kids? Are you having sex with risky bc?
Yeah, no. It my partner found out a friend of his was cheating, I would request for him to drop that friend. If he didn't? He obviously made his choice on who he would rather keep around.
OP is justifying the friend's cheating. And honestly? I wouldn't wanna be with someone like that
Is that “liking” cheating? He would never cheat or accept in his marriage but understands that his friend is flawed and accepts her
I agree with everything except the contacting the ex part. Explaining and apologizing to his ex is just selfish. She doesn't deserve to be saddled with this emotional dumpster fire. Telling her all this would just cause her pain. OP would only be doing it to assuage his own conscience, and OP has done enough selfish things where his ex is concerned already.
What the hell is this supposed to mean? Are you conspiring drunk driving to getting SA’ed while under the influence of a date r@pe drug? (Alcohol is considered the #1 date r@pe dry)
12 weeks is near the end of 1st trimester Not 3rd. But the 3rd month, near 4.
I guess what’s bothering me is how this friendship has changed. The 3 of us hang out together a lot, and when I notice that they are starting to become a thing, I was distancing myself from it just because it was awkward for me to just be thirdwheeling. And they noticed me distancing and were actively trying to involve me more, like looking for me around campus. I guess I just have to cope with that.
This is wild. It’s not about whether he’s going to cheat, going on a vacation with a girl who openly disrespects his relationship and his partner is messed up regardless of whether anything happens. I wouldn’t be ok with my partner continuing any kind of friendship with this person, let alone going away with them without me.
This is not a reasonable thing for someone in a committed relationship to be doing and you should absolutely follow through on what you told him. End it if he goes. The fact that he’s having trouble choosing between your relationship and this trip at all at all would be reason enough for me to end it.
Your mom is definitely acting in an abusive manner. This is not ok. You are an adult and you have every right to spend time with your boyfriend whenever you want. It is 10000% not okay for her to basically threaten to take away your housing just because you want to spend time with a boy. Even if you WERE having sex, it still would not be ok.
However, the thing with abusers is that, if they control something you need to stay alive, such as your housing, you are completely at their mercy until you find away to take that leverage away from them, until you can 100% be independent of them. This isn't fair. This isn't moral. But it's how things work in our society, and you just have to work around it. You just have to follow your mom's rules in order to survive.
If you are in school, get as good of grades as possible so that you have the best possible prospects of a job when you get out. In the mean time, save up whatever money you can and move out as soon as possible.
Reach out + Express your feelings. If you don't, you'll never get closure. Just a heads up, it seems to me that she wants to move on and I'd recommend you do the same. Sorry bro, I feel for ya and hope someone else comes along for you soon.
Not gonna lie, mine too.