What he actually values is goodwill at work when he’s in a compromised position dating you already. This is the exact kind of drama employers want to avoid when they discourage colleagues dating. Let him handle his own work interactions. If you have an issue with a colleague yourself, handle it how you will. But your bf is the one being harassed. Don’t make his position worse for him needlessly.
Dude, my then bf (now fiance), included me in his house purchase when we’d been together a little over a year. I didn’t think I was owed a HUGE say but we wanted a future together and we made decisions that ensure that future could still happen. The fact you don’t see this is alarming
How do people even get in these situations? Being degraded and threatened like that. How does it not even click when you read all these social media posts about other relationships, when you even type this shit out? I don't think any good person would let it get this far, speaking from personal anecdotes.
He's the one who needs to get over this, not you. Unless he comes here asking for advice, there's nothing we can about it.
Leave her and tell her to pay the rest of the month’s rent with her own money
My wife being in a clothing optional bar would get her divorce papers. I guess people have different tolerance for bullish.
Don’t do this, OP.
What he actually values is goodwill at work when he’s in a compromised position dating you already. This is the exact kind of drama employers want to avoid when they discourage colleagues dating. Let him handle his own work interactions. If you have an issue with a colleague yourself, handle it how you will. But your bf is the one being harassed. Don’t make his position worse for him needlessly.
Dude, my then bf (now fiance), included me in his house purchase when we’d been together a little over a year. I didn’t think I was owed a HUGE say but we wanted a future together and we made decisions that ensure that future could still happen. The fact you don’t see this is alarming
Ew.
Hey, plus side! You were super cool and in control and next time you have a crush you got this!
How do people even get in these situations? Being degraded and threatened like that. How does it not even click when you read all these social media posts about other relationships, when you even type this shit out? I don't think any good person would let it get this far, speaking from personal anecdotes.