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Date: October 12, 2022
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This isn't a question about gaslighting at all, you have the wrong word. She is just talking about basic manipulation and fairness (and no you aren't manipulating her). You are in the right not to pay her bills. Why are you paying them at all?
He stole hot photos of her (which is illegal) and she should be thankful he still finds her sexy? That’s a clown opinion
You leave, that's what you do. No amount of trauma in your past gets to excuse you abusing someone else. Her behaviour is abusive, threatening to hurt yourself if someone leaves is abusive. You're 18, you're still way too young to be taking on someone else's mental health issues, and I doubt you are qualified anyway. If you stay in this, you'll end up with issues of your own. Inform the people around her of your plan so they can support her, and break up with her.
Your time will be better spent working on your own situation so you can leave. You can’t change him, you can’t make him treat you better.
The only thing you can do is treat yourself better.
You shouldn't be asking questions you don't want the honest answer to. Stop doing that, and it will save you a lot of hurt feelings
You said you two shouldn't talk anymore, and he's agreed. You're the one who cut him off here, you don't get to decide “backsies” when it suits you.
One of the solutions I have is getting rid of my smartphone and replacing it with a analog one. That thing has way to many distractions for me and I hate how it nested itself into every aspect of my life. I hate how they've become so normal in everyday life. For example I need whatsapp for my work for the planning otherwise I don't know which buildingsite to be on. The app me and my partner communicate on is whatsapp also. So even if I don't want to open a message to prevent me from feeling to contact her I get triggerd by the workgroup or the co-housing group. Another idea I had is to move out so we have more time apart, we've actually talked about it.