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Date: October 18, 2022
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Between the comments here about ways to talk to my wife and finding a different support system, my only concern is that if I do find a different area of support, will she see that as something negative? Something like: why do I need positive affirmation from strangers? She can be a little jealous.
He thinks because he can't betray his friendship. What's your opinion on this?
Break up with him.
Just tell her. People who act like it'll ruin a friendship aren't worth being friends with
Don’t you mean your dad?
Well, to be clear, he also sounds emotionally abusive.
But your response in this case was to immediately launch into a diatribe about how much fun you were going to have and how he will regret it because nobody will want him. That's pretty awful.
You are at the gratuitously-hurting-each-other phase of the relationship. Just break up.
Answer the question. You can't blame “gaslighting” when there are words on a page.
Some people view marriage as this “magical” thing that transcends space and time. Other people view it as something humans created to clarify certain expectations and obligations. My guess is your wife thinks of marriage as the former and you think of it as the later. You proposing this solution is a disconnect for her because she views marriage as something magical and your position is ruining the magic. Should she get over it? Yes. But that’s why I think it’s very hot for her to do so.
So cheating+lying+keeping secrets for all these years? Not good. You really need to think this throught.
Tell her to not blame her cheating on alcohol.
(Why? Because I've read a similar response to what a women should reply to her partner who cheated on her when drunk.)
You're being unnecessarily controlled in your Long Distance Relationship. You're going to be miserably controlled for the duration of this relationship. Please reconsider giving everything up for a long distance psycho.
If you want to cheat, you will. No situation will change that.
I'm sorry to be blunt, but that's not the point, the point is you've come here asking for advice and from an outside perspective, shooting your load at work is a HUGE red flag. No normal person masturbates at their job. If your friend told you she'd just masturbated at work, would you not be like “yo wtf that's weird”? He could have 100 amazing qualities but this by itself is a huge deal and I feel like through your comments, you're not understanding or believing it to be as big of a deal as it is.
His sex addiction to porn and himself is ruining your relationship and will eventually ruin his career plans, relationships (romantic, familiar and friendships). If you truly want to stay with him, then you need to sit him down immediately and tell him he needs to seek professional help to beat this (no pun intended), because it's ruining your relationship. It's obvious from his failed attempts that he can't do this by himself, and you allowing it to go on and staying in the relationship shows him he can get away with it and that he doesn't need to change.
Get him professional help, set some boundaries (if you refuse to seek help, I will leave this relationship), reset expectations around intimacy and your needs of what you want from it and work with him to address the issue. Or break up, because it doesn't sound like you two can figure this out together.
Block him.
The only reasonable response to “we can’t have sex for a while because of a health issue” is “ok, let me know when you’re ready.”
Shes in therapy. She has a lot of familial trauma and so I understand why she responds the way that she does, but that does not make her very emotional responses any more comfortable for either of us. I want her to work on her self-esteem both for her own sake and so that I can feel safe saying things like “It hurt me when you did this” without feeling like I’m crossing a huge boundary.
At the end of the day it’s little things. She has little outbursts at me when she’s fed up at work and stuff like that. I can let things go and keep my mouth shut about things that hurt me but I don’t think it’s fair or right for me to do so. It is never a comfort that I am hurt by her actions, and when I address it, it is flipped around and by the end of the conversation I am comforting her and reassuring her. At the end of the conversation it’s always her talking about how she tries to be good to me and fails. Then she ends the conversation, goes cold, and she does something self destructive.
I understand how it makes me look douchey to say “What about me” but at the end of the day, the self destructive behavior and the depression is a result of my genuine feelings of genuine mistreatment. She never addresses my feelings and tries to fix any of my concerns, nor does she stick around to comfort me when I am hurt. She only focuses how my feelings and concerns make her feel, like my emotions and concerns are at best, peripheral to her own self-loathing. It’s difficult to communicate that to her without perpetuating the cycle even further though
As for things getting better on their own over time, I don’t think they would.
The lying is a dealbreaker on its own.
If this was a couple in the first few months just figuring out if they want to keep dating, I'd understand his silence. There is no reason to expose yourself to others. I don't offer my status as a survivor of child abuse early on, either.
At some point before a year, there was some moment when they decided to become exclusive and started introducing each other into each other's lives. That's when this needed to be discussed as a serious issue that might be a dealbreaker.
Your brother is in charge of scheduling his wedding, right? Why would he do it on the same day as your graduation? Do the times overlap?
If this is real (which I highly doubt), la-di-freaking-dah.
At least your son was honest with you that if Max ditches you (which you can bet on that 100%), you'll be alone with your daughter. You can cry all you want.
I really hope this is fake written by someone who had a lot of free time.
Why not get them a promise ring? It’s sentimental, you can give a nice gift, they have a pretty piece of jewelry, and you’re showing how committed you are without getting legally bound yet. Once you’ve lived together for at least 2 years and things are STABLE, get the legal shit going and pop the question
You’re not in the wrong. You’re absolutely allowed to talk to friends, and she’s not allowed to tell you who you can and can’t be friends with. Don’t submit to her controlling behaviors.
How can you not be in a relationship but exclusive? The label is : we are talking