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Someone asked the same question I already replied somewhere in the comments.
This is a joke right? Lol
I did not do that. I did not!
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If her husband is a POS, maybe you should encourage her to get a divorce. Does she have a full-time job? She could have 50/50 custody. Or do you think he'll give her full custody and not pay child support?
Or you could encourage her to do things for her, like get some therapy, go for walks alone, leave the kids with him and leave for an hour. The kids are old enough that they can entertain themselves with minimal supervision.
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Yesterday, I (35f) sent my husband (38m) out to the grocery store to pick up some bread really quick. He came home over 2 hours later. Ask him where he was and he tells me that he had to pick up some things for Christmas for his co-workers and “others.” The co-workers thing made sense but the wording about “others” was so odd so I'm like what others? He says oh you know, you guys, the family. Now, this man never buys us gifts. Ever. I handle all the Christmas shopping for all the whole family- I buy and wrap my own present every year. I suspend my disbelief and just say okay.
The whole thing seemed more and more like bullshit as I thought about it and it occurred to me that when he came into the house he didn't bring anything with him- just the groceries. Whatever he bought must be in his car. Found a chance to sneak out to the car- there is noting in it but a single bag. It's hidden pretty well behind his seat. Dolce & Gabbana sunglasses. Check our bank account- $350 purchase.
They are absolutely not for me. I don't wear sunglasses. I wear prescription glasses (I'm super blind) and it's just never been convenient to get sunglasses too. Check the model live and I think they're mens? I can't think of a single person in his life he'd buy something this extravagant for. I don't think it's for his boss or anything like that- he hates his boss and would have bitched about having to buy a gift for him. He would never wear something like that himself.
What do I do reddit? I could ask where the extra (non-existent) gifts for the family are when we unwrap presents tomorrow. But do I really want to start a fight on Christmas?
Her reasoning is that he doesn't buy me gifts because I don't buy him gifts. He never bought me any gifts before. It's not like he's been giving me gifts every holiday.
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I can understand the awkwardness. It happens to women sometimes, we underestimate at times just how much men have a physical advantage over us, and when they never show their true strength it can come as a surprise and be quite shocking, and frankly scary when we realise it.
In those moments it becomes truly apparent that if a man wanted to hurt me or overpower me he could probably do so with very little trouble. It sucks to learn it the way you did, however it is an important life lesson. Good to know it now than if you god forbid find yourself in a situation where you may need to defend yourself against a man, because when it comes to brute strength 99% of the time they will come out on top.
That is something you 2 need work out.If you can t you better never have kids! saying that I all ways took into consideration commute money when finding a job..And sometimes A job little less pay thats closer is better. Besides gas and wear tear on car. Putting in longer days ..A 8 hour day is 10 hour day if long drive..So i would say gas money all part her job..But be nice of you to help her out if she having money problems. I mean what happens if one of Yous get laid off ? collect for while but can ne big pay cut..If love each other don t let money cause fights it s only paper!! SO work this out nicely or go your separate ways now! save the fights and lawyer costs
Yes.
this is a repost, ive seen this before
Bro thinks he got an STD from a toilet seat ? Idiot is too kind.
He's a creep.
either way, your fcked…
People treat animals the way they will eventually tread people given enough time and opportunity. You are not the special magical creature who will redeem him and make him a better man. That is a fairytale. And real fairytales are pretty dark anyway. Get away from this guy. Call animal control and tell them what you saw him do to his dog, but get the hell away from that guy.
you're welcome, good luck!
Don't worry dude. He's just there to align her Chakra Zulu alignment through his tantric yoni core manipulation. Totally legit.
Does the NPC resembles someone in real life that’s in your circle?
If they’ve got nothing else,they’ve got audacity
What do you mean?
Sounds like your irritation is that he makes you feel pressured or uncomfortable and you don’t like it, so you feel irritated by him. As for what to say “I need a lot of time to get to know someone where as you said you loved me already. It’s fine you move faster than me, it just means we’re not romantically compatible, but I’m cool with being friends. I hope you understand.”
Did I say he wasn't being childish? She's perfectly capable of sending him a quick text, it's not that naked.
This is one of the reasons that internet literacy really needs to be a thing taught in schools. The number of people suckered by various youtube and tiktok rabbit holes is truly sad.
Your relationship is over. It was over the minute she decided that your relationship was poly without even having a single discussion with you. And once she laughed at you? Nope. Time to peace out.
The joke is going to be on her when she realizes how much communication poly relationships are. She can't just decide for other people. The ability to have difficult conversations is important in any relationship but much more so in poly ones as the more people are involved the more communication there needs to be.
“Here, these are the diverce papers. Next time you decide to make a doormat of me without any reason whatsoever, Im filing them.”
That should be enough of a reason for her to shape up.
She broke the rules 30 times. That’s not respecting you or the marriage. I don’t think she has any intention of getting back together. I would cut your losses and continue being separated.
You’re gambling on your child’s safety. Girl what.
I'm no psychologist, so take this with a grain of salt, but your fiance sounds like a classic narcissist to me. Again, this is based on no qualifications.
Even if that's not her diagnosis, why would you want to be with this person? She sounds awful. And that's in your words, which are probably as “benefit of the doubt” filled as possible.
You're a bit further ahead than her in knowing what you want, that's all. Give it time and go at her pace. It sounds like this is worth waiting for.
Yeah I have been getting mixed replies from people, and I realized that giving all of them at once is not that good of an idea. Maybe 1-3 should be enough.
I think you voice your concerns to your bf about the issue and then note that you aren’t married and it’s ultimately his decision. Then you let him know that you don’t want to hear any complaints about the issue in the future if things don’t go well. Then drop it and don’t discuss any further.
Yeah….this is bs, “the next morning”?
Bruuuuuhhhh.
I grew up in a house where no one ever left lights on i
That's unfortunate, sorry.
$50-$100 in savings, or whatever the “amount” may be, is meaningless in equation to light quality.
Hah! Imagine. That'd be nuts lol
You are beyond sad if you think 4 whole months is something to brag about
THIS TIME. No one knows what they did before getting together and it’s a 50/50 chance either of them brought HPV to the party. Just STOP IT.
Hand him back the ring and block. Gifts are gifts.
Yeah that’s what I thought too. Ok thanks for the advice will do ?
You should bring this to a poly specific group.
But what happens if you just choose “not you” for the one person that this is no longer working for?
Guess what? You’re wrong. He’s not meant for you. How do I know that? You just told me! You guys are incompatible
I don't want to seem harsh but you're being very unreasonable. I see no reason why IWD means you'd receive a flower/gift? Also, if you want to spend the day with him then next time just ask him. I hope that helps.
Info: How many times have you seen each other in person? Your post says you live far from each other. What does that mean? If this is a distance relationship and you have only seen each other 4-5 times in person, then not having sex yet makes sense. If this is not the case and you meet up regularly, well then something is weird here and you need to talk like mature adults. You are both way too old to be afraid to talk about sex.
Info: How many times have you seen each other in person? Your post says you live far from each other. What does that mean? If this is a distance relationship and you have only seen each other 4-5 times in person, then not having sex yet makes sense. If this is not the case and you meet up regularly, well then something is weird here and you need to talk like mature adults. You are both way too old to be afraid to talk about sex.
Info: How many times have you seen each other in person? Your post says you live far from each other. What does that mean? If this is a distance relationship and you have only seen each other 4-5 times in person, then not having sex yet makes sense. If this is not the case and you meet up regularly, well then something is weird here and you need to talk like mature adults. You are both way too old to be afraid to talk about sex.
I agree with you my friend, however I rely on him for everything and I’m not financially stable. I have no family I can move in with expect for across the country- which is not impossible, but I am in college with scholarship in the state I live in.
I wish it were easier
Then he shouldn't date her. He shouldn't get her to change. That will make her self conscious and she won't enjoy it anymore. I imagine someone criticizing your O face. I bet you wouldn't like it.
He admits he cheated in the title. My opinion is based solely on what OPs post. If he disclosed more later, fair enough. But is seems pretty clear he made a dumb decision while being drunk, one he later regretted later due to understanding the consequences of his choice. Nothing he stated in post points to anything happening against his will.
Wow…. so this comes back regularly?
And it is always over something “you did”?
Making you cave in because that shit drama makes you feel like sea sick?
And it always feels as if for one detail the entire relationship was at stake?
Why am I asking that?
Because I know that.
Have you ever considered that your husband could be a covered narcissist?
Narcissist come under sevaral forms. Some are openly mean.
Others tend to be nice. Until some small detail doesn't get their way.
Their ways to make others feel.bad slightly differ from those clearly identifiable narcissists will use.
But not all that much.
What exactly is your plan here? You let her take the trip lingerie and all and then when she comes back you’re going to confront her? What exactly has changed in the time she’s been away other than giving her the chance to have sex with whoever she’s planning to have sex with, if that’s what she’s planning?
Confront her. Tell her you found these in the suitcase, and given they’re pieces that she normally doesn’t wear for you the only conclusion you can reach is that she’s planning to wear them for someone else. Ask her WTF is going on and if she’s cheating or planning to. And ask to see her phone.
Look, it’s possible that there’s an innocent explanation. The boudoir photoshoot that some are suggesting is not out of the realm of possibility. Though I’d be wondering why she planned it for this trip rather than doing it in your home town. If it is innocent then you can apologise profusely but surely she would be able to see how suspicious this looks even if she isn’t up to anything shady.
Whichever way this pans out I hope you get your answers, one way or the other. All the best.
Potential solution; he can put hospital contacts on a special “ringer” in case there is a work emergency he needs to check, and everyone else, he can ignore until your conversation, dinner, etc is over to take a look at his phone.
My EX would do stuff like this, she'd insist we watch a TV show together, then sit on her phone facebook scrolling. I'd react like “oh no” and she'd look up and not know what's going on, then ask to rewind to watch that part again. It was super annoying, especially because I didn't particularly like many of her show choices.
Stop going to her family functions. This is the only solution.
She gets to pick her response to her trauma but you don’t have to go along with it.
You want to screw other people, she doesn't so it's clear you both are incompatible. There is nothing old fashioned about her so stop calling her that. That's a lame excuse to try to tell us what you're doing is fine and she doesn't want to be onboard with it. Break up so she can meet a real man who doesn't want to fuck other people but her and her alone.
What is going on with you kid?
What is so important about the attention you get from a man 25 years older? Can’t you get the same attention from someone your age?
That man’s marriage could end and you’re worried about cutting contact “with your friend”? He’s not your friend, he wants to bone a 25 yo, if he hadn’t already is probably because no other 25yo would be caught dead dating him. That’s his business, not yours, but you are complicit in this if you keep pretending he’s not interested. He obviously is interested in you, otherwise he wouldn’t be writing you poems, he would be paying attention to his wife and cutting contact with you, because if he’s such a good person, you would mean absolutely nothing to him, therefore cutting contact with you would be the simplest thing in the world.
I’d definitely be upset too, if I were her. In her shoes it does look like you actively ignored her, but a simple conversation could’ve solved it. My bf and I had this issue at the start of our relationship. Him and I both have ADHD (his is undiagnosed but very obvious) but it affects our relationship differently. I’m very fast at answering, both because I hate leaving people on delivered and because I know I’ll forget if I don’t. He is a very busy person and gets distracted, so mid conversation he’ll leave me on delivered for an hour sometimes. It really bothered me at first, because he’d be on instagram (Ik because he’d like posts I’d send him) and I’d get very upset with him. Eventually I got so upset I’d ignore him and after the first time, we just sat down and had a conversation and explained our sides. He felt I was to rash and got upset with him instead of talking the situation out. I asked that he make more of an effort to lmk he was busy if he could, or try double notifications in case he forgets (you can do this on iPhone for messages). It all just came down to a communication issue on my end and forgetfulness on his. We’ve since worked on ourselves and haven’t had this issue since. My advice- ask to sit down and discuss the situation. Don’t address her part at first, just yours. Say “I understand it upset you that I came off as ignoring you. That was not my intention but I realize my actions upset you and I apologize” wait for her to acknowledge her side and apologize for taking the petty route. If she does not, bring it up and tell her it upset you that, instead of telling you she was upset and talking about it, she simply ignored you to get back at you. Let her know this reaction made you uncomfortable because it comes off as a retaliation, which is not the way to go about a healthy relationship. If she starts an argument after this, I’d say go ahead and end it. If she isn’t willing to see the downside to retaliating, or her part in the situation, she isn’t for you. She will continue to do this in the future and the relationship will end up with you walking on eggshells around her. We constantly mess up. We’re human. We’re going to do things that unintentionally hurt other people. A relationship is a partnership that strives off forgiveness and compassion. We are humans constantly making mistakes that can unintentionally impact our partners. Having healthy communication and a willingness to work on ourselves is really the only way to have a happy relationship. But the work shouldn’t only be on you. Hold her accountable, and if that’s an issue for her, leave her. Hope this helps