Ohhkay. Personal preference and all that, but I have never met a man who would claim that dicks are universally 'prettier' than vaginas. It's usually the other way around in that most men find women more appealing. Even a lot of women don't think it's always the most beautiful thing on a man's body.
It's also incredibly offense to assume that all womem smell bad.
It sounds to me like he may be bi or downright gay and hasn't figured that out for himself yet.
Or he's had some super bad experiences with women which have negatively altered his perception.
I personally, don't know whether I'd feel comfortable having sex with someone who thinks I'm downright ugly down there.
Jesus no OP leave this woman. She's a horrible person. Blaming u for the fact she's a homewrecker is a new low. Don't marry this chick. She can't keep it in her pants.
You assume that anything happening between the two of you sexually is private. She assumed that she could openly discuss sexual experiences with girlfriends. Now that you know both of you have different views on this, you need to establish boundaries about where you draw the line in privacy.
Thank you for sharing your story. I often think about what you said in your tl;dr about being deceptive. My gf says I am being too harsh on myself, and that I usually am, in work etc as well. But I am afraid of exactly what you say, if I forgive myself and downplay my actions it's the same as being complacent to what I've done. And if I'm being honest I don't think I deserve to be complacent after what I've done. I've asked my gf multiple times about what she thinks about hitting me and she responded something along the lines of “Yeah I think it's bad and I am ashamed of it but that's not the person I am and I am never gonna do that again”
Why do people keep repeating this urban myth.
Wear a hat low over your eyes and wear headphones. If you look like you don’t want to talk to anyone they will get the hint. That’s what I do
Ohhkay. Personal preference and all that, but I have never met a man who would claim that dicks are universally 'prettier' than vaginas. It's usually the other way around in that most men find women more appealing. Even a lot of women don't think it's always the most beautiful thing on a man's body.
It's also incredibly offense to assume that all womem smell bad.
It sounds to me like he may be bi or downright gay and hasn't figured that out for himself yet.
Or he's had some super bad experiences with women which have negatively altered his perception.
I personally, don't know whether I'd feel comfortable having sex with someone who thinks I'm downright ugly down there.
Jesus no OP leave this woman. She's a horrible person. Blaming u for the fact she's a homewrecker is a new low. Don't marry this chick. She can't keep it in her pants.
You assume that anything happening between the two of you sexually is private. She assumed that she could openly discuss sexual experiences with girlfriends. Now that you know both of you have different views on this, you need to establish boundaries about where you draw the line in privacy.
You're not compatible, let her go find someone else who knows what a compromise is.
But they are still providing the transportation. Things like this will happen in an LDR.
Strenght. This is what it is.
You definitely need to address that anxiety. He was a walking red flag, and you two are not compatible, he sounds awful.
Thank you for sharing your story. I often think about what you said in your tl;dr about being deceptive. My gf says I am being too harsh on myself, and that I usually am, in work etc as well. But I am afraid of exactly what you say, if I forgive myself and downplay my actions it's the same as being complacent to what I've done. And if I'm being honest I don't think I deserve to be complacent after what I've done. I've asked my gf multiple times about what she thinks about hitting me and she responded something along the lines of “Yeah I think it's bad and I am ashamed of it but that's not the person I am and I am never gonna do that again”