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Sensual dance [45 tokens remaining]
Date: October 8, 2022
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Sensual dance [45 tokens remaining]
There is never a good time, so just do it. Do it today and get it over with.
And you don't need to justify it or explain it. You don't need a “valid” reason. It isn't working for you, done.
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Seems like he's going to need a lot of safe space to talk about something that he seems to be really traumatized about.
He's not suicidal, but you are driving him insane. Your insecurities are your own to own and sort out, and he doesn't have to pander to you.
Realise you're the problem and seek help. He's had enough.
understand from a very similar position. it sounds like your fiancé is really great and prioritizes you. i'm sorry you had to go through this but im really happy he was so receptive of your needs!
So it's still all about you, even though he's the one that's hurting? Do you have any idea how self absorbed and arrogant you keep sounding?
Well, I moved in with my husband a month after meeting him and here we are 12 years later.
Honestly, everyone is different. How long has it been since he divorced? Have you flat out asked him if he sees this going anywhere?
Since you've brought it up and it hasn't changed, this could be a deliberate passive-aggressive move by your parents to encourage you to move out, but your issues aside, I am glad older people can still be loudly passionate. Let them have some quality alone time while it's still possible, they're not getting any younger.
If you pay them rent, bring it up again and talk through it like adults, maybe withhold rent.
If you don't pay rent, earplugs and white noise machines as people have suggested, and perhaps look for a place of your own. You're 19.
Yes, we’re coming for dinner.
Honestly, you can't make a breakup easy. There is nothing you can say or do to make it hurt less. Just tell her it's not working and go no contact. Don't try to keep her as a friend, that's only going to make it harder for her to move on. Perhaps at a later date you can reconnect and be friends, but not now.
Also, keep in mind that humans are ALL deeply flawed in some way or another. I understand she may not be the one for you, but saying that she has “too many flaws to be the mother of your children” is pretty rough.
We call what you're doing victim blaming, because the only person at fault in an assault is the person who did the assaulting.
Thanks for that context. Let's start with the big picture here; you asked this person to marry you. You asked her to make your relationship legal.
So then, the question is why? I can obviously assume the primary answer is love, as it should be. But look at what you just wrote regarding your sex life.
You say it's fine “I think.” You're going to marry someone where you're not certain your sex life is good? But alright, let's continue. Always on her terms. You good with that?
Regarding kinks, are you into any? Are they important to you? Will you be resentful if BJs don't happen for the rest of your life? Would you like daytime sex? Would you like her to initiate? You also get turned down quite a bit, so I'm not sure how you can tell me that you think your sex life is fine.
Regardless of all that, this is the important context I was looking for. You came in here upset about how she spoke about ex partners. In a silo, it's a non-issue which is what I argued. In context, you've now told me (and us) the real reason why you're upset about her talking about her exes.
That's why I pressed the issue. I didn't want to just come here and call you insecure and move on. I knew there was a deeper reason behind your feelings. The two of you have a bad sex life. To just focus on you, you yourself are unhappy with your sex life. It's ok to have those feelings.
Knowing that though, why would you want to deal with this for the rest of your life?
It’s ALREADY “come to that.” Good grief, read between the lines! How are you 25 and so naive?