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I would like to keep it and wear it but I don't want him to feel I did it out of pity.
Too little, too late. You complained about minimal effort he made in the past, now that he's made an effort you try to go behind his back to undo it. You're right, it probably will demotivate him from putting in extra effort in future, why should he bother with effort if he gets less hurt when he puts no effort in.
You can keep the jewellery now, you can wear it till the day you die… But you've tainted the jewellery now and he'll always believe that you're only wearing it out of pity.
Next time someone puts in the effort you asked for, don't throw it down the toilet.
And here it is ladies and gents. The guy who is willing to cheat because he can’t keep it in his pants.
She lied then she tried to manipulate him by making promises of not breaking up with her before he knew what it is about and she will never be able to have bio children. That changes everything
It’s almost like she left her watch at work.
thank you, I'm going crazy here because I feel like the people around me have gone mad
Something physical is still possible, as is sexual trauma.
That’s what I figured
I'm sorry you're going though this man. Armed forces has a high rate of divorce due to just this. Being gone for months on end can really stress a relationship out. Hell, even when I was traveling a every once in a while as a Network engineer bugged my then gf a bit.
As far as reasoning, just consider yourself being at home alone for months at a time. Your brain either starts longing or gets used to being alone. It's why people have kids in these situations – while not the best reason, kids do provide companionship or at least distraction.
It's very well possible she got lonely as well and found someone. Sure you don't want to hear this, but I'm sure you considered it.
It sounds like she's convinced herself that it's over and has mentally prepared herself for it. You stop pretending or attempting to be hospitable at that point. Emotionally, coming to terms with leaving someone requires a certain amount of emotional separation. You no longer say 'I love you' kiss, hold hands.. all these things brings you back, and you've decided to move forward.
Again, sorry man. Couple counseling and/or reminder when your term is finished is a good start. If her mind is set though, you're fighting an uphill battle.
No, lol i’ve been in relationships with people with BPD and i also have friends who have BPD. So, no. what are you going to do about it? nothing
I agree. I just don't see moving home as a good option.
Also, men get your HPV vaccine too. You don't want be spreading that to people you care about!
Yeah, I agree that there's more to this story. Why doesn't he feel like part of the family? When do the kids tell him he isn't their parent and what is his and mom's response?
Also what is he expecting in return for parenting? What are his expectations for the kids? Why don't they want to have a relationship with him in the future? That is a huge red flag if kids want to sever a relationship they've had for a majority of their lives. Kids don't want to do that unless the relationship is shitty or they've been alienated by someone else.
Sounds like y’all were playing a game of chicken on who would initiate contact. It’s annoying how common this is. At the same time it also sounds like you tried a bit more than her initially and one week of no contact shouldn’t ruin a good thing in its early stages IMO.
After the words that have been exchanged i would say it’s best for you to just go your separate ways, buy just an outsider opinion.
Your friendship was based on you attraction to eachother. If you were just really good friends none of this would have happened to begin with.
If you truly want to be friends with her, respect her wishes and give her space. Let her reach out to you when she's ready. Don't pester her undermining her goal of working on herself.
As another user said, she told you “No”. That's the end of it. There's no arguing your point of view is better than hers when it comes to her emotions and wellbeing.
You've been together for over 3 years, this is “part of who you are”, yet you've never ever talked about it before?
Then you agree to be in an open relationship. You don't cheat.