Idk if I should go for the guy (I have confused feelings for him at this point but I wouldn't mind dating him) just so I could be in the same rela as my friend.
Wtf are you doing here OP?
Are you even poly?
Who do you even like here?
You need to figure you out before you try to jump into a poly relationship because of your confused feelings of just “wanting to be in a relationship with my friend”
Yup. It’s ARFID.
The good doesn't outweigh any of this. These are things that make a relationship non functional
Idk if I should go for the guy (I have confused feelings for him at this point but I wouldn't mind dating him) just so I could be in the same rela as my friend.
Wtf are you doing here OP?
Are you even poly?
Who do you even like here?
You need to figure you out before you try to jump into a poly relationship because of your confused feelings of just “wanting to be in a relationship with my friend”
Like what?