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SHOW FINGERS PUSSY [169 tokens remaining]
Date: November 7, 2022
AmateurPub
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SHOW FINGERS PUSSY [169 tokens remaining]
It doesn’t matter that you earn more and your household is fine without his money.
He should be contributing a fair percentage to shared expenses and he should also definitely not be HIDING MONEY OR LYING ABOUT WHERE HES SPENT IT. Which I’m afraid he is 100% doing.
He’s living off of you and doing whatever he likes. Whether there is another woman or god forbid another family involved (because let’s face it what a weird jerk reaction remark to make) is for you to determine. Regardless though he’s not being transparent with you.
What else could he also be lying about?
ughh I know it’s the right thing to do but so hot since I really love him. what if I give myself a month and if I don’t see any changes break up then? or should I just do it sooner in case i cause more problems. i really am willing to change myself :/ sorry for all the annoying questions
We don't know that but you can suggest they attend pre marriage counselling to be sure it's the right decision?
Clearly its a source of frustration, but what you need to do is sit down and set clear boundaries/expectations and most importantly BOTH AGREE ON THEM.
If you’re not comfortable having your sex life discussed with others, then say she shouldn’t discuss your and her exploits with anyone. She may feel differently, but you need to come to a consensus on that.
Going off your side comment of “like everything else other people have to be involved in our relationship” tells me its happened before.
You’re allowed to be frustrated, of course you are, but its a lesson learned here and now its time to ensure it doesn’t happen again. Sit down, explain why you want sex life off limits as a public discussion, and agree on things with her. There will be back and forth, but you both need to agree on this.
Fam, you don't need the crap. If it's exhausting, follow your gut. Love needs work, but it shouldn't be exhausting. And you're right, it's a two way street, not a highway and a bike path.
Just on the surface of “he joins dating apps to make me feel shitty/threatened,” you deserve better than that. And him backpedalling and downplaying it because you called him on it will likely become a cycle if you try to keep him around.
Overall I realize that herpes isn't that bad
The common cold isn't that bad but I'd still be pissed if someone was like “well you didn't ask if I was sick so I thought it was fine to come over and make out with you”. And obviously something that will stick with you for the rest of your life is a lot more serious than that. It absolutely is a major breach of trust, it's selfish, and shows a lack of respect for you and your right to make your own choice here.