She can ask and maybe you can make plans, but she shouldn’t be forcing you out if you have nowhere to go or too tired to make plans. That’s rude on her. And if she expects you out of the house often, that makes her requests even worse. She needs to make some compromises too.
Seems like a bit of a strange question, it’s my partner’s brother, I don’t want him to make a mistake
She can ask and maybe you can make plans, but she shouldn’t be forcing you out if you have nowhere to go or too tired to make plans. That’s rude on her. And if she expects you out of the house often, that makes her requests even worse. She needs to make some compromises too.
Wait, what?
She sounds a little bit bonkers. And her friends too.
You did nothing wrong. Asked on a date, and were told no. Why would she end up shouting? What happened in-between?