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Sasha Silver, y.o.
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Date: October 23, 2022
Brake up with this a hole. You deserve better
yes i am insecure and have a lot of unhealdd trauma and it was probably a mistake getting into a relationship with him and i’m going to break it off today. i’m not gonna control anyone i’m too old for this
Haha true—no, no physical compliments. Just some kind parting words basically. I just can’t figure out if I’m muddying up a clean breakup (our lives don’t overlap at all, hence the breakup, I will be very surprised if I ever see him again). Or if this is just a nice thing to do and more people should follow a breakup with saying nice things about each other and wishing each other well.
There will be things that you are excited about that he isnt and there will be things that he is excited about that you arent. What is important is that he doesnt put you down for the things you get excited about. If he is willing to pursue these things with you, that is all you can ask for. My girlfriend is excited about a lot of things that I am not, but I do them with her because it makes her happy, and thats honestly all you can ask for.
You turned a joke, in a funny and otherwise enjoyable moment, into a complete fucking meltdown. Please start therapy before you torpedo your entire relationship.
I got decent traction a few years ago asking people if they’d be upset if the government sent them a letter stating “your marriage certificate is null and void, here your civil union certificate. Please use this going forward.” To the shock of none they were.I replied “but you think a civil union is ok with gays, why are you upset if you think it’s equal for them?” Non douches had a lightbulb moment.
Leave, yes, absolutely. Do so because he's twice your age and because he doesn't care about your boundaries. He never would have married you if he thought you would express needs of your own. Which is a problem.
There's also the very common scenario of them opening up, GF having tons of success and OP realizing finding casual sex as a partnered man is not as easy as anticipated and is then unhappy with the arrangement.
OP, check out r/nonmonogamy
Would you end the relationship if you partner started becoming violent with you? I guess the answer's yes.
Rape is another, more serious form of abuse. You should run away, OP.
I can only wish you the best in rebuilding yourself and your life
I'm guessing the new bitch didn't have a pot to piss in. ?
It could be a possibility but what?
Dude itll never work, time to move on
Just to nitpick , they’ve been together for 13 years, not married for 13. OP is only 25…
One possible way to approach this question I’d to ask yourself: These guys who approach you, who are not your type and so you are not into them… What could they do to make themselves appealing to you?
Then try to take whatever advice you can think of, that you would give these people, and apply it to your own situation.
Overall, though, the absolutely best thing you can do to attract the best people is to work on yourself for YOU. Not for THEM. And I don’t mean that as a bland platitude, I mean it quite literally. People who are comfortable in their own skin and confident are usually way more attractive in how they go through life, how they carry themselves, how they come across in a myriad of situations.
Absolutely work on your physical appearance – eating well, exercising, good hygiene/grooming, and good clothing choices for your body type will always be what make a good first impression – but it only gets you up the first step. Beauty may get you a date or a booty call, but people stick around and form long-term relationships because of personalities.
She was actually the one that suggested that she stay out of it. She's open to it, she wants us to get along, and the ultimate goal would be to hash out our differences.
Dude, tell your wife and show her the proof. Her friend is not a friend. I'd be concerned about how the friend will spin it when she tells your wife.
Raper
Is this relationship enough for you? Are you happy with the way things are right now? Are your needs being met?
Yep. As soon as woman gets sick love turns to hate. Its disgusting and disgraceful
He's being a straight up controlling asshole, he's a mental midget.
This is all fantastic advice- thank you. She's already speaking with a therapist, but it does not seem to improve things much. In fact, I find she can be more volatile after a session. I've lightly introduced the idea of medication, which I'm not one to typically advocate for but in her case it would likely prove beneficial for her. But, that route has definitely not been explored.
I'm unsure where to put a line in the dirt, as I know it's not my issue to always handle but dating someone that does have severe anxiety with separation and other things does come with bearing some responsibility- at least it feels like. Is it appropriate to ask her to address her anxiety issues with her therapist when things get bad and I feel I can't handle it? I feel that's likely to cause more issue, but would be more beneficial for my mental health.
Also, I don't believe I deleted a reply. I think you may have seen my reply to the other comment on the most pop-up? Not sure how that works but maybe?
I'm not wanting to cut things all together, but I do know I may have to. I'm in a weird spot where I'm very well aware that I could end up with someone else in the future, but I'm also not wanting to let go just yet because I really want to believe in her.
That’s cheating and I would leave him
Totally. I smoked cigars, and played board games at mine, and my best man flew into town to grill steaks in my backyard for it.
I went to one where we just bar hopped around Detroit, socialized with some passing bachelorette parties, caught a Tigers game, and then went to Denny's for late night drunk food.
I went to another where we had a crayfish boil.
Like, there is nothing scandalous about it.
That’s ridiculous. Any break is a waste of time especially if there’s no growth… what sort of changes does one make in 2 days?
Omg yes I thought of this too! “I'M NOT PART OF YOUR SYSTEM!”
My partner wants all the lights off unless we are using a room. I like the house lit up and window shades open.
So I just…. Do my thing. ?♀️
Or maybe OP has lurked here and knows what the follow-up info questions will be? Anyone who checks out recent posts at any given time would know what they should share to avoid info responses.
I’m married too. If my spouse wanted to go unwind, clear their mind or whatever else, that indeed would be a matter of concern for me. And perhaps some therapy would be considered later. But therapy is not what they want. They want vacation. I’m not saying I’m going to fund their trips and wait for them for years to come back, I just let them do what they want and let them carry the consequences. If they come back after some reasonable timespan, happier and willing to cooperate, that’s good. Otherwise, I’m getting a divorce and full custody on the kid.
Putting pressure on an unhappy adult, trying to control them, demand answers from them, pushing them to couples counselling won’t do nobody any good.
Does that make sense?