Yeah she slept with one of my close friends at a time when i didn't even know her. It doesn't sound rational to be upset with her about that. But I am more upset that when when we met 5 years ago she told me she wanted to be with me and that she hopes I am not rejecting her because of my close friend because nothing ever happened between them. We really only started dating about two weeks ago and things got serious quick and she dropped the bombshell on me this morning. On one hand, a part of me wants to appreciate her telling me now now that things have seemed to have gotten serious.. but on the other hand, she lied to me years ago about it because she didn't want to “lose me.” She did say that she always wanted to tell me but she couldn't find the words because she regrets the act so much and didn't want to lose me. I'm crazy about her now so I'm worried that I may be irrational and desperate for her love and act on that by taking her back. But if I could be assured that there would be no more lies in our relationship ahead I can look past all of this
Hey op, you good?
Yeah she slept with one of my close friends at a time when i didn't even know her. It doesn't sound rational to be upset with her about that. But I am more upset that when when we met 5 years ago she told me she wanted to be with me and that she hopes I am not rejecting her because of my close friend because nothing ever happened between them. We really only started dating about two weeks ago and things got serious quick and she dropped the bombshell on me this morning. On one hand, a part of me wants to appreciate her telling me now now that things have seemed to have gotten serious.. but on the other hand, she lied to me years ago about it because she didn't want to “lose me.” She did say that she always wanted to tell me but she couldn't find the words because she regrets the act so much and didn't want to lose me. I'm crazy about her now so I'm worried that I may be irrational and desperate for her love and act on that by taking her back. But if I could be assured that there would be no more lies in our relationship ahead I can look past all of this
Just a another question. Do you think she should’ve mentioned her ex once we became official? Is that something I was never supposed to know?