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Birth Date: 2004-06-28
Body Type: bodyTypeThin
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorOther
Eyes color: eyeColorBlue
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Date: November 7, 2022
Lol we’re allowed to say her boundaries are ridiculous, which this one is. She seems to be out of her damn mind if I’m being blunt, the type to accuse OP of rape if he accidentally brushes up against her booty one time. He’s gotta protect himself from false imprisonment and move on from this psycho.
Wish I knew how to meet those guys.
“You can only sleep with women” is NOT a boundary – it’s a rule.
You should have done a lot of work before even considering opening your relationship and you didn’t and now you’re reaping the consequences.
There’s plenty of successful polyamorous and open relationships – a simple post on a forum specifically for those topics would have saved a lot of this bullshit.
What was the overshare that you called out? I think that’s important to assess the situation because you clearly felt comfortable and open enough to bring it up (whatever it is) and that was essentially the first and most significant disconnect between you.
Also, keep in mind for better or worse, this was your first (and potentially last) fight/disagreement. So the other party is also likely looking at how you handle conflicts and/disagreements, did you handle it in a way that you’re proud of? Or did you do/say anything that you regret? Because if so, they were on the receiving end of it so they may have learned some valuable insights about you that they may not have liked. Seeing how people deal with disagreement and adversity in general, for better or worse, tells a lot about someone.
This is like an extremely important piece of information. I was going to ask about cultural background bc tbh in some cultures this is not such a strange way to behave at all. I don't know about him specifically, but I have lived in many places where before marriage or at least engagement, what you described is completely normal.
My partner has some questionable fashion choices but I love him for who he is, not for how he decides to style himself, and I don’t ever expect him to change how he wants to present himself. It’s his life and his body and his preferences for fashion and style.
Making the other person change what they want for themselves, their own body and their own life to make you more comfortable just isn’t healthy. If it’s not something you can get over, leave. It’d be better than turning into a controlling partner who withholds love or sex just because they don’t agree with a fashion choice. This marriage sounds like it is built on a foundation of keeping up appearances for each other instead of genuine love and acceptance – how exhausting and sad.
If your ex doesn’t know you are dating you are better off telling him before he finds out from someone
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You make good valid points. And I'm happy that this is your reaction.
I'm not a psycologist. But I'm guessing that your guy is dealing with complicated feelings between being socialized to desire sex as a man, and still being self concious about his body. The result is defensiveness.
Your best course of action is be accepting of his vulnerability and demonstrate that he can trust you. When you have trust, deeper intimacy will be possible.
Now, she has cancer, at very young age…