What she is doing is both libelous and slanderous. You didn’t rape her.
Block her on everything. Explain the rape accusations when asked: she found out I slept with someone else and decided that by not telling her about it, her consent didn’t count. She’s saying that even though our sex was consensual, she wouldn’t have consented had she known. Basically, she’s mad & she’s being as damaging as she can.”
Are the lawyers hitting her with a cease & desist? Do they think you should preemptively go to HR? This does have the potential to ruin you. Work with the lawyers.
There is nothing wrong with your partner's belief and acts due to his religion.
However, you need to consider whether you can accept all the changes that he has to do due to his new religion. If not, then you have to break up with him.
But you can focus on yourself more. That's what I had to do, I couldn't get away right away so I just started living like it was MY life, not “ours”. Stop dropping everything when he goes crazy to take care of him. Instead, remove yourself and the dog from the environment and go for a walk, leave him to tire himself out. You can cut him off emotionally without cutting him out physically if you can't do all at once. Just stop giving him anything and remove yourself when he acts irrational.
You know he feels more comfortable acting the way he does because there's a precedent set that he CAN act that way, and you'll forgive him because it makes him depressed that he acted like shit. Also, what kind of shit is that? He acts like an asshole, beats the dog, and then gets sulky and stays in bed for days after getting called out on it? Most people would take that as a sign to get some self fucking help, why hasn't he?
If your son is cool with it, I don’t see why anyone else’s opinion matters.
Tbh, I’m not the most liberal person in the world, but I don’t think anyone should have any objections to what two consenting adults do in a relationship. If he’s happy and she isn’t displaying some clear red flags, which it appears she isn’t, everyone should live and let live!
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What she is doing is both libelous and slanderous. You didn’t rape her.
Block her on everything. Explain the rape accusations when asked: she found out I slept with someone else and decided that by not telling her about it, her consent didn’t count. She’s saying that even though our sex was consensual, she wouldn’t have consented had she known. Basically, she’s mad & she’s being as damaging as she can.”
Are the lawyers hitting her with a cease & desist? Do they think you should preemptively go to HR? This does have the potential to ruin you. Work with the lawyers.
Umm… Maybe she's just not that into you.
There is nothing wrong with your partner's belief and acts due to his religion.
However, you need to consider whether you can accept all the changes that he has to do due to his new religion. If not, then you have to break up with him.
But you can focus on yourself more. That's what I had to do, I couldn't get away right away so I just started living like it was MY life, not “ours”. Stop dropping everything when he goes crazy to take care of him. Instead, remove yourself and the dog from the environment and go for a walk, leave him to tire himself out. You can cut him off emotionally without cutting him out physically if you can't do all at once. Just stop giving him anything and remove yourself when he acts irrational.
You know he feels more comfortable acting the way he does because there's a precedent set that he CAN act that way, and you'll forgive him because it makes him depressed that he acted like shit. Also, what kind of shit is that? He acts like an asshole, beats the dog, and then gets sulky and stays in bed for days after getting called out on it? Most people would take that as a sign to get some self fucking help, why hasn't he?
If your son is cool with it, I don’t see why anyone else’s opinion matters.
Tbh, I’m not the most liberal person in the world, but I don’t think anyone should have any objections to what two consenting adults do in a relationship. If he’s happy and she isn’t displaying some clear red flags, which it appears she isn’t, everyone should live and let live!