It's relative and depends on the eye of the beholder. It's true she may have other or past issues or influences over time that contributed to this reaction; however, in the eyes of OP, he's only been in her life for 3 weeks and from his perspective it's 0-100. This doesn't mean he directly contributed to her reaction.
My husband and I occasionally do MMF threesomes and it has never been an issue. I know he would never cheat or disrespect me. I have complete trust in him and vice-versa. I think there are 2 ways that threesomes can be successful – as you said, if everyone is casual it can easily be successful if no intense emotions are at play, it can simply be a fun & exciting experience.
I also think for like-minded individuals in a strong, stable, healthy long-term relationship, it can be equally successful. The problem is, too many people decide to have a threesome when they are trying to “fix” their relationship, or are doing it because their partner convinced then to, or because they think its a way to keep their partner from cheating, etc.
A threesome won't fix anything and it can absolutely break a relationship that has some significant weak spots
Have you tried looking at adult stores live? They have numbing cream that you can apply to your penis before sex to help you last longer. My fiancé used to take those gas station pills before sex and I think it fucked him up a bit because now it's more difficult to get an erection so I DONT recommend those. However you can go to hims.com and look at products they have on there or even get a low dose of viagra.
Oh no, it's my bad, I started out way too harsh. I should have known that you had a good reason to cut them off considering how worried about the situation you are.
I am hoping for the best for you, it's a terrible situation to be in.
People don’t go from 0-100 like she did.
It's relative and depends on the eye of the beholder. It's true she may have other or past issues or influences over time that contributed to this reaction; however, in the eyes of OP, he's only been in her life for 3 weeks and from his perspective it's 0-100. This doesn't mean he directly contributed to her reaction.
Cognitive dissonance.
My husband and I occasionally do MMF threesomes and it has never been an issue. I know he would never cheat or disrespect me. I have complete trust in him and vice-versa. I think there are 2 ways that threesomes can be successful – as you said, if everyone is casual it can easily be successful if no intense emotions are at play, it can simply be a fun & exciting experience.
I also think for like-minded individuals in a strong, stable, healthy long-term relationship, it can be equally successful. The problem is, too many people decide to have a threesome when they are trying to “fix” their relationship, or are doing it because their partner convinced then to, or because they think its a way to keep their partner from cheating, etc.
A threesome won't fix anything and it can absolutely break a relationship that has some significant weak spots
Or HPV that can lead to cervical cancer… get your HPV vaccine !
In that case, nail clippings will do
Not sure if you’re aware, but us women are capable of being around men without slipping and falling on a dick.
She just refuses
Have you tried looking at adult stores live? They have numbing cream that you can apply to your penis before sex to help you last longer. My fiancé used to take those gas station pills before sex and I think it fucked him up a bit because now it's more difficult to get an erection so I DONT recommend those. However you can go to hims.com and look at products they have on there or even get a low dose of viagra.
Oh no, it's my bad, I started out way too harsh. I should have known that you had a good reason to cut them off considering how worried about the situation you are.
I am hoping for the best for you, it's a terrible situation to be in.