Exactly! If my girls ever “forget” our housekeeper was coming and she needed to spend time moving their stuff out of her way, that would be a big nono & their rooms would not be cleaned again. That has NEVER happened!
Yup diagnosed depressed and definitely lost. I had what I thought was a great 9 year relationship yesterday and then that collapsed this morning before I’d even had a cup of tea. Going to get me some counselling I think, I don’t really have deep discussions with anyone else but my wife so there’s never been anyone to point it out.
Hey, D&D is cool. I’ve been married for 18 years and we host in our home. Sometimes I join in, sometimes I vibe in my room and enjoy Netflix or something.
I do think the weekly thing would get tiresome, for sure. I’m not saying you have to change how you do things, or that you’re being unreasonable: it’s your home too, of course, but for us a hybrid of every other session being somewhere else really helped. It just took the edge off by not having company weekly.
Because a lot of people have a comprehension problem and can't see that the commentor is thinking of the OPs safety… they're ignorantly thinking the commentor is trying to keep her from calling out the cheater, which is NOT the case. People reacting emotionally, rather than using simple logic to see that it's good advice to 'be cautious'.
Likely, they are the sort to act rashly and end up making their own lives drama filled and chaotic.
Bruh stop minimizing her actions she chose to sleep with him
Bro here's what is really going on she liked this guy broke up with you to get with him when she realized he doesn't want a relationship she decides to run back to you with a fake sob story so you'll feel bad for her and take her back bro you deserve better and the reason she won't go NC is she just waiting until he decides he want her . Your just a backup plan please Leave.'
Exactly! If my girls ever “forget” our housekeeper was coming and she needed to spend time moving their stuff out of her way, that would be a big nono & their rooms would not be cleaned again. That has NEVER happened!
Yup diagnosed depressed and definitely lost. I had what I thought was a great 9 year relationship yesterday and then that collapsed this morning before I’d even had a cup of tea. Going to get me some counselling I think, I don’t really have deep discussions with anyone else but my wife so there’s never been anyone to point it out.
Hey, D&D is cool. I’ve been married for 18 years and we host in our home. Sometimes I join in, sometimes I vibe in my room and enjoy Netflix or something.
I do think the weekly thing would get tiresome, for sure. I’m not saying you have to change how you do things, or that you’re being unreasonable: it’s your home too, of course, but for us a hybrid of every other session being somewhere else really helped. It just took the edge off by not having company weekly.
Because a lot of people have a comprehension problem and can't see that the commentor is thinking of the OPs safety… they're ignorantly thinking the commentor is trying to keep her from calling out the cheater, which is NOT the case. People reacting emotionally, rather than using simple logic to see that it's good advice to 'be cautious'.
Likely, they are the sort to act rashly and end up making their own lives drama filled and chaotic.
Then she should start looking for a job asap.
It sucks being dumped by someone who sucks themselves especially when you were almost the dumper.
However, trash does take itself out and based on what you wrote- better that it happened sooner rather than later.
I did try to say no before, he kept pushing for it so I decided to get something out of this to than be a doormat.
Brother.
You've been taken advantage of and now you're being abused.
I know you're scared, I know you think you can just ignore it.
But you should not.
You should never render yourself powerless.
Tell the police. Tell social media, tell your friends.
Tell them how Pete not only raped you.
Tell them how he tried time and time again.
Tell them how he began abusing you, all these things he's done to you.
Do not let him walk away, do not le him do to somebody else.
You know these types, you know who they are.
It's no longer their world, they can't just hush the internet away, they can't hide the shame forever.
But you can choose to do what must be done.
You can choose to make the world a lighter brighter by bringing a monster to the light.
I wont judge you if you end up simply leaving, I don't know what'll happen then.
I understand how nude it is to do such a thing
Yet I believe that no decent man could see what has been unleashed and try not to contain it.
Be at peace brother, and good luck.
Bruh stop minimizing her actions she chose to sleep with him
Bro here's what is really going on she liked this guy broke up with you to get with him when she realized he doesn't want a relationship she decides to run back to you with a fake sob story so you'll feel bad for her and take her back bro you deserve better and the reason she won't go NC is she just waiting until he decides he want her . Your just a backup plan please Leave.'
She will break up with you again
yeeeaaaaah say “snitch” like a big boy