Having surgery to simulate a vagina doesn’t mean you have a vagina. You have a mutilated inside out penis, and most if not all straight men would be disgusted to have sex with that. There is nothing “transphobic” about it
It seems like you are deliberately trying to gloss over the real problem. The real problem is your friend that did bad things and had to apologize. What did your friend do to make your husband not trust her? Why are you willing to damage your marriage over this person who butts heads with your husband? It can be very hot for a marriage to survive when there is an enemy inside the walls.
Your friends are right, you didn’t do anything wrong. That was all on her. She blew it and sounds immature, maybe not ready for a relationship. I wouldn’t pursue a relationship with her because that’s a very big red flag.
It’s literally your choice. Fuck ‘em
Having surgery to simulate a vagina doesn’t mean you have a vagina. You have a mutilated inside out penis, and most if not all straight men would be disgusted to have sex with that. There is nothing “transphobic” about it
Then you should be able to afford a maid parttime to relief some of the household things!
You can't be doing 100% childcare, housework and cooking, he doesn't do anything but a paycheck!
It seems like you are deliberately trying to gloss over the real problem. The real problem is your friend that did bad things and had to apologize. What did your friend do to make your husband not trust her? Why are you willing to damage your marriage over this person who butts heads with your husband? It can be very hot for a marriage to survive when there is an enemy inside the walls.
But him doing what he does feels even more gross.
Otherwise, why would you be here?
Oh lord, so much therapy is needed. For him for ALL OF THIS MESS and for you for putting up with it. Not couples therapy though. Break up, therapy.
Your friends are right, you didn’t do anything wrong. That was all on her. She blew it and sounds immature, maybe not ready for a relationship. I wouldn’t pursue a relationship with her because that’s a very big red flag.
Why even give it to a friend? Leave it outside. What ever happens to it, happens.