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Well, now she's basically ignoring me. We slept in different rooms, I came to her, made her coffee and she just closed the doors and is now ignoring me. I don't want to on-line like this, but I'm afraid of breaking up, I don't know what will everything be after that
I did the math creep. A couple of days doesn’t really matter. Had she graduated high school? Did she graduate high school? Does she work? Go to college? Have her own bank account? I’ve been 21 and and you wouldn’t have caught me pursuing a child.
I’m sorry but your children are not in a stable home.
Idk how she's being so delusional… she calls this a stable home? Her kids will grow up and see how their parents treat and ignore each other and think this is supposed to a healthy marriage?
I agree for the most part but this is really her decision. OP is 22 and this relationship may not last and she may not be certain about her own desire to be a parent yet.
he is asking for my forgiveness to help in his recovery to become a better husband and dad.
Well, him being a better husband and dad are definitely NOT your job. That's his. He framed his apology as centered on his needs.
3rd option from the two you describe. I would discuss with your therapist and if you wanted to tell him you still have scars physically and mentally from his abuse, and the apology means little to you given it is predicated on his needs. If he wants to do the right thing he will never contact you again.
At least that way you get to speak up for yourself in a way you never did. And, maybe, get the last word. It's not petty, it's actually pretty self-affirming to tell an old bully to fuck off.
I really wish I could tell you that it will all be fine and everything will work out but I can't. This could knock his world off its axis but he still deserves to know and you don't deserve the burden of carrying this secret for your mother. She never should've put you in this position and should’ve been honest with him years ago. Speaking to her is the only way to get more information so you can decide where to go from there. Hopefully she will accept the responsibility she's been avoiding all this time and talk to him herself so you are not left with this choice. I truly hope it all works out for you. Sending big hugs over the internet to you! ❤️
Say no and have a serious conversation about why she thinks this was a reasonable request. I would feel very taken for granted in your shoes. This would be break-up territory.
“Hitler was a vegetarian because he didn't like animal suffering, he clearly had good qualities but no one is going to say that he was a good man”
Quit posting that, please. That's a myth. He just had a shitty stomach and would tell guests gruesome stories about animals suffering at slaughter yards to shock the assembly. Which was quite in line with his overal mindset.
But he ate meat. That myth seemed to have been put on by Joseph Goebbels to glorify the Nazy leader as being kind and soft minded.
Like…. please fact check. Don't by randomly divulgued information.
I'm not going to get fully into this because someone else will have better words than me, and you're young and won't get this fully yet anyway.
I think you're imagining a situation where she turns this guy down, and he backs off and is respectful. This is not how it often goes for women. That's a fantasy idea. Imagine if most of your life was people like this not caring if you said no, and not respecting you at all. Over and over.
What happens when you turn an obsessive creep down is they just get worse. Things get worse for you. This is her coworker so she can't get away. Holding guys like this at arms length in a work situation makes more sense than the drama and frankly danger that comes with shutting them down hot.
Give her some slack for trying to do this with grace and less drama. It is scary.
Well, now she's basically ignoring me. We slept in different rooms, I came to her, made her coffee and she just closed the doors and is now ignoring me. I don't want to on-line like this, but I'm afraid of breaking up, I don't know what will everything be after that
Stop seeing people every single weekend who are toxic to your marriage.
I mean I guess he chose her but she was definitely second choice..
Have you fixed the family issue yet? Don't contact her until you do.
I did the math creep. A couple of days doesn’t really matter. Had she graduated high school? Did she graduate high school? Does she work? Go to college? Have her own bank account? I’ve been 21 and and you wouldn’t have caught me pursuing a child.
I’m sorry but your children are not in a stable home.
Idk how she's being so delusional… she calls this a stable home? Her kids will grow up and see how their parents treat and ignore each other and think this is supposed to a healthy marriage?
I agree for the most part but this is really her decision. OP is 22 and this relationship may not last and she may not be certain about her own desire to be a parent yet.
he is asking for my forgiveness to help in his recovery to become a better husband and dad.
Well, him being a better husband and dad are definitely NOT your job. That's his. He framed his apology as centered on his needs.
3rd option from the two you describe. I would discuss with your therapist and if you wanted to tell him you still have scars physically and mentally from his abuse, and the apology means little to you given it is predicated on his needs. If he wants to do the right thing he will never contact you again.
At least that way you get to speak up for yourself in a way you never did. And, maybe, get the last word. It's not petty, it's actually pretty self-affirming to tell an old bully to fuck off.
I really wish I could tell you that it will all be fine and everything will work out but I can't. This could knock his world off its axis but he still deserves to know and you don't deserve the burden of carrying this secret for your mother. She never should've put you in this position and should’ve been honest with him years ago. Speaking to her is the only way to get more information so you can decide where to go from there. Hopefully she will accept the responsibility she's been avoiding all this time and talk to him herself so you are not left with this choice. I truly hope it all works out for you. Sending big hugs over the internet to you! ❤️
Say no and have a serious conversation about why she thinks this was a reasonable request. I would feel very taken for granted in your shoes. This would be break-up territory.
“Hitler was a vegetarian because he didn't like animal suffering, he clearly had good qualities but no one is going to say that he was a good man”
Quit posting that, please. That's a myth. He just had a shitty stomach and would tell guests gruesome stories about animals suffering at slaughter yards to shock the assembly. Which was quite in line with his overal mindset.
But he ate meat. That myth seemed to have been put on by Joseph Goebbels to glorify the Nazy leader as being kind and soft minded.
Like…. please fact check. Don't by randomly divulgued information.
One never knows whos shit one buys.
I think your sister made that offer because she trusts you and wants you to feel comfortable while you sleep.
It is a weird offer, but I think she was trying to be kind.
I'm sorry about the pups. That's hot.
I'm not going to get fully into this because someone else will have better words than me, and you're young and won't get this fully yet anyway.
I think you're imagining a situation where she turns this guy down, and he backs off and is respectful. This is not how it often goes for women. That's a fantasy idea. Imagine if most of your life was people like this not caring if you said no, and not respecting you at all. Over and over.
What happens when you turn an obsessive creep down is they just get worse. Things get worse for you. This is her coworker so she can't get away. Holding guys like this at arms length in a work situation makes more sense than the drama and frankly danger that comes with shutting them down hot.
Give her some slack for trying to do this with grace and less drama. It is scary.