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face show [Multi Goal]
Date: November 6, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
face show [Multi Goal]
When it comes time to sign the new rental agreement, tell him you want more space so he’s going to have to find his own place, if he objects just tell him it’s not a break up, you just need you’re own space. Hold firm on just that one point. Once you’re in a new place, if nothing has changed break up and block him. But on no condition should you let him move back in with you unless he actually goes to counseling, individual and couples for at least three years as cheating and promising improvement and then not doing it aren’t things people often fix with out therapy and years of it.
He's so “go to you and your kids” that he's keeping your kids a secret from his family. Come on.
You’re in the wrong for reacting the way you did. You pulled the “nice guy” shit and now you’re reaping the consequences. Does she suck for using you as an emotional crutch when things weren’t great for her? Absolutely. Do you suck for trying to essentially buy her love? Yeah. Do you suck for giving her ultimatums about staying friends when everyone who reads your post knows it will just be a repeating sick cycle carousel of this behavior from both of you? Definitely. Man up, cut your losses, learn from this, and move on.
If you're realizing that you're incompatible, and she does too, just end it as amicably as possible. It's better to do it now and not go through a divorce.