My take on this is that you told her ‘it’s my way or the highway.’ Now you are trying to justify that that was ok because you made money than you would have at your 250k job. Money isn’t everything and TBH, and a million dollars isn’t actually that much money.
It certainly doesn’t make up for knowing that your partner doesn’t see you as an equal and will pull the breadwinner power play shit whenever they want. (Did you put the money 50/50 in her name?) Of course that will kill the trust, respect, and intimacy in a relationship.
The sad part is that you are only figuring this out now. You got your money, but it really hurt your marriage, and your wife. Personally, I would have divorced someone who treated me like that. It’s also why I always advise other women – have your own money.
Think about having kids with her, would she vaccinate them? Would she get them medical attention when needed or would she put potatoes in their socks? This sort of behavior only escalates. You saved yourself a lot of grief by ending it before then. You'll meet your person soon and future you will thank you.
Unfortunately I live way out in the middle of nowhere, so there isn't any companies like that around me. 🙁
I will try and figure out how to tell him. And see if I can find anyone here with trust worthy dogs.
And what do you mean by this isn't final? Do you mean going to meet the dogs or what exactly? And yeah I am trying to get him to go to therapy but he doesn't seem motivated nor willing to even try to overcome his fear of dogs… My mom has a huge German shepherd/ newfoundland mix and she is the sweetest thing. And I can guarantee him 100% that she will not hurt him but he isn't even willing to try it with her.. he sees her size and seems to judge them based on that.
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We left as a group, a convoy, leaving people off as we drove.
My take on this is that you told her ‘it’s my way or the highway.’ Now you are trying to justify that that was ok because you made money than you would have at your 250k job. Money isn’t everything and TBH, and a million dollars isn’t actually that much money.
It certainly doesn’t make up for knowing that your partner doesn’t see you as an equal and will pull the breadwinner power play shit whenever they want. (Did you put the money 50/50 in her name?) Of course that will kill the trust, respect, and intimacy in a relationship.
The sad part is that you are only figuring this out now. You got your money, but it really hurt your marriage, and your wife. Personally, I would have divorced someone who treated me like that. It’s also why I always advise other women – have your own money.
Do you want him jacking off or fucking some other bitch
Think about having kids with her, would she vaccinate them? Would she get them medical attention when needed or would she put potatoes in their socks? This sort of behavior only escalates. You saved yourself a lot of grief by ending it before then. You'll meet your person soon and future you will thank you.
It's not a gift giving holiday. She's being unreasonable.
Unfortunately I live way out in the middle of nowhere, so there isn't any companies like that around me. 🙁
I will try and figure out how to tell him. And see if I can find anyone here with trust worthy dogs.
And what do you mean by this isn't final? Do you mean going to meet the dogs or what exactly? And yeah I am trying to get him to go to therapy but he doesn't seem motivated nor willing to even try to overcome his fear of dogs… My mom has a huge German shepherd/ newfoundland mix and she is the sweetest thing. And I can guarantee him 100% that she will not hurt him but he isn't even willing to try it with her.. he sees her size and seems to judge them based on that.
Thank you for the advice I really appreciate it!