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Thank you for saying this I also dated people with people who are thirsty when I was in my early twenties and that was many decades ago. I still remember those relationships fondly, I don't feel like I was used at all. Of course there's an age difference. There's often differences in age class culture education. Of course young women need to be careful but actually sadly in this culture women just need to be careful.
Pretty certain because her mom had sole custody, she was also given her moms last name. She was born as the result of an affair between her 18 year old mother and her father who was married and had kids already (her older sister and brother). It caused a lot of problems and her moms family disapproved. Whenever she was with her dad her mom and grandma where with her because he lived hours away.
The dad had 50/50 custody of the oldest siblings from marriage 1 and primary custody of her youngest sister from marriage 4 and that’s how he was able to abuse them. The oldest and youngest sister are 18 year apart so they didn’t live there at same time.
My fiancé was only at her dads for parties, to collect gifts like her car for her bday and for celebrations. Sisters were there 24.7, so my fiancé wasn’t aware of abuse and lashed out at them for mistreating her dad or being difficult
You have done many many terrible things. Everything people about you in the comments is true. But I'm going to answer your question and give you advice on meeting with your son, since he's the one initiating contact. First, you need to follow any stipulations for him meeting you. Whether that means no Max, I'm public, whatever he wants, you do.
He is most likely going to rip you a new one. Things like all these other comments are saying. And you need to take it. You need to listen. Not only is it what you deserve, it's the very least you owe your son after all this time. And he still won't forgive you in the end. There's nothing you can do that will earn forgiveness.
Just for this once, do the right thing for your son. It may well be the last time you have the chance to.
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Thank you for saying this I also dated people with people who are thirsty when I was in my early twenties and that was many decades ago. I still remember those relationships fondly, I don't feel like I was used at all. Of course there's an age difference. There's often differences in age class culture education. Of course young women need to be careful but actually sadly in this culture women just need to be careful.
Also she doesn't sound very bright.
Pretty certain because her mom had sole custody, she was also given her moms last name. She was born as the result of an affair between her 18 year old mother and her father who was married and had kids already (her older sister and brother). It caused a lot of problems and her moms family disapproved. Whenever she was with her dad her mom and grandma where with her because he lived hours away.
The dad had 50/50 custody of the oldest siblings from marriage 1 and primary custody of her youngest sister from marriage 4 and that’s how he was able to abuse them. The oldest and youngest sister are 18 year apart so they didn’t live there at same time.
My fiancé was only at her dads for parties, to collect gifts like her car for her bday and for celebrations. Sisters were there 24.7, so my fiancé wasn’t aware of abuse and lashed out at them for mistreating her dad or being difficult
You have done many many terrible things. Everything people about you in the comments is true. But I'm going to answer your question and give you advice on meeting with your son, since he's the one initiating contact. First, you need to follow any stipulations for him meeting you. Whether that means no Max, I'm public, whatever he wants, you do.
He is most likely going to rip you a new one. Things like all these other comments are saying. And you need to take it. You need to listen. Not only is it what you deserve, it's the very least you owe your son after all this time. And he still won't forgive you in the end. There's nothing you can do that will earn forgiveness.
Just for this once, do the right thing for your son. It may well be the last time you have the chance to.
he can’t be here