Ultimately it comes down to what you can and cannot live! with. Personally if the previous 15 years were like you say they were, she'd definitely have to earn my trust back, we'd talk about boundaries, and if any doubts arose she'd have to prove there's nothing. Maybe some couple's therapy. But that's me. If you can't forgive or forget what she did and you're ok with where you are now, then best of luck getting back into the dating pool.
He was silently panicking. She told him to calm down. There wouldn’t have been a situation if she hadn’t came at him. Everyone is very aware a husband telling an upset or anxious wife to “calm down” is a big fuckup. So don’t dress this up as her trying to help. She wasn’t. She could probably just sense his anxious energy and it bothered her. So she started something. I’d call that getting in his face. You can call it whatever you want.
What's hilarious is further down more agree with me but this top comment receives more dislikes lol. Apparently you can't call out bad behavior directly like that.. “YoU CAn'T SaY LOW VALUE TRASH” but shhhh it's totally trashy behavior and we don't condone or accept it it in any way..
You are exactly right
I'll definitely keep that in mind as a backup plan. Thank you!
Ultimately it comes down to what you can and cannot live! with. Personally if the previous 15 years were like you say they were, she'd definitely have to earn my trust back, we'd talk about boundaries, and if any doubts arose she'd have to prove there's nothing. Maybe some couple's therapy. But that's me. If you can't forgive or forget what she did and you're ok with where you are now, then best of luck getting back into the dating pool.
He was silently panicking. She told him to calm down. There wouldn’t have been a situation if she hadn’t came at him. Everyone is very aware a husband telling an upset or anxious wife to “calm down” is a big fuckup. So don’t dress this up as her trying to help. She wasn’t. She could probably just sense his anxious energy and it bothered her. So she started something. I’d call that getting in his face. You can call it whatever you want.
What's hilarious is further down more agree with me but this top comment receives more dislikes lol. Apparently you can't call out bad behavior directly like that.. “YoU CAn'T SaY LOW VALUE TRASH” but shhhh it's totally trashy behavior and we don't condone or accept it it in any way..
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No, you just ignored the rape that did occur to speculate on one that might have occurred.