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I was married for five miserable years to someone like you are describing. He was amazing when sober. He got drunk every night. He swore he didn't want to end up like has verbally abusive alcoholic dad but he was marching the same path as fast as he could. No amount of begging or arguing was ever going to change that.
Of course it wasn't. He got comfortable. Ray didn't drink every day when we got together. But when he did he was mean. He was always “sorry” and “it wouldn't happen again”. He wasn't because it did. It ended up every single day.
The good times DO NOT make up for the bad. Don't get caught up in Sunk Cost Fallacy like I did. It's called fallacy for a reason. Cut your losses. If (big IF) he gets himself straightened out you can always go into talks with him about trying again.
You can try to explain how bad it is to his family, but they probably won't believe it and will likely blame you.
I am so sorry. You are doing a good thing. You quit .. For now. But people keep making you repeat yourself. I'm glad you are going to the dentist for the cleaning. Try a beauty school for the hair mask and clarifying shampoo (cheaper than salon) or do it at home. The ozone machine someone recommended earlier from Amazon should take care of the house (even though you never smoked there, the smoke in your clothes and skin would have spread) and car after both have been cleaned. That leaves clothes. You said you plan repeated washes, but that leads to shrinkage/ill- fit, fraying, and higher utility bills. And according to other smokers proved ineffective. Perhaps, commenters have other suggestions? You never responded about the hunter stuff so that might not be of interest to you. But, it seems like you are definitely listening to what others are saying and choosing what will work for you. Keep it up. Good luck! And congrats on the newest addition!
I think it's valid for anyone to require a certain kind of sexual acts for their relationships. It's not okay to demand it from an individual, but in the same way it's okay to break up with someone who doesn't want kids, but not okay to force them to have kids, you can have requirements for relationships.
There is also definitely an uneven playing field with different requirements for orgasms from men and women, though (shockingly to me) there are women who don't like receiving oral.
Conversely, guys who like to give oral without getting anything back are super common on in gayland.
The important thing is communication, mutual focus on pleasure and sexual compatibility. Figure out what works for you, figure out what works for your partner and decide if that relationship works for you. Don't lie to them or yourself and think you don't need something you do.
I don’t think he’d be lying about that part.