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She broke up with you, then after this, you demanded she retract her statement about you or never see you again?
Seems like some basic compatibility problems, I'd just move on. Plus, she broke up with you. At this point you'd be saying “you know what, if you change your mind I decided I'll allow it” which isn't very dignified.
I definitely realize this, hence my asking for help. He has a primary care physician, and they tend to tell him he needs to lose weight at his yearly check-ups but he just doesn’t care. At all.
Correct me if I’m wrong, but the only way I can interpret this comment is that you believe he SHOULD have cut his dad and his little brothers out of his life because of his mom’s ultimatum? I could not disagree more. How can you ask you son to choose between erasing one parent or another out of their life? And because of something he had no involvement in whatsoever?
Like I get it, cheating is shitty, the dad is shitty, but he’s still his dad, and his sons are the guys brothers. She wasn’t just asking him to cut contact with his own father, but his little brothers too. His FAMILY.
His mom did not have to do this ultimatum, that was HER choice to put her son in an impossible situation and HER choice to cut him off because he didn’t choose to cut half his family out of his life because his dad cheated.
I just can’t understand how anyone could side with the mother in this situation
If it’s bothering you then I think you have to address it. Just do it privately so it’s not in a group setting. Tell him you have noticed it being more frequent and it’s making you feel awkward.
It’s going to be awkward for you if you don’t say anything. There is a chance it will naturally stop but how long do you want to deal with this until it does or worse if it doesn’t?
George doesn't sound like he changed at all. He just wants forgiveness to help him absolve himself without actual work. He has had all this time to reach out to you, and he waits until your father's funeral to do it, which is absolutely the wrong time to do that. He acts hurt, petty, and rude when you rebut his advances. Then, he follows it up with an email. He has literally had all this time to make amends, and he doesn't attempt it until he is in his mid-forties. Screw that guy.
I mean this in the nicest way possible: you need to see about getting into therapy. This seems like obsessive behavior, and I think you need professional help to work through it. If you're compulsively worrying and can't eat all day because he may have been in proximity of/glanced at a women who's attractive, then this is seriously impacting your life and its a health issue. You're not broken, but you need to search for ways to help yourself.
She broke up with you, then after this, you demanded she retract her statement about you or never see you again?
Seems like some basic compatibility problems, I'd just move on. Plus, she broke up with you. At this point you'd be saying “you know what, if you change your mind I decided I'll allow it” which isn't very dignified.
I definitely realize this, hence my asking for help. He has a primary care physician, and they tend to tell him he needs to lose weight at his yearly check-ups but he just doesn’t care. At all.
He’s a loser.
Correct me if I’m wrong, but the only way I can interpret this comment is that you believe he SHOULD have cut his dad and his little brothers out of his life because of his mom’s ultimatum? I could not disagree more. How can you ask you son to choose between erasing one parent or another out of their life? And because of something he had no involvement in whatsoever?
Like I get it, cheating is shitty, the dad is shitty, but he’s still his dad, and his sons are the guys brothers. She wasn’t just asking him to cut contact with his own father, but his little brothers too. His FAMILY.
His mom did not have to do this ultimatum, that was HER choice to put her son in an impossible situation and HER choice to cut him off because he didn’t choose to cut half his family out of his life because his dad cheated.
I just can’t understand how anyone could side with the mother in this situation
If it’s bothering you then I think you have to address it. Just do it privately so it’s not in a group setting. Tell him you have noticed it being more frequent and it’s making you feel awkward.
It’s going to be awkward for you if you don’t say anything. There is a chance it will naturally stop but how long do you want to deal with this until it does or worse if it doesn’t?
What if I told you that in 10 years, he'd still be like this?
He won't change. And if he does change, it won't be because of you. He's been with you for 4 years and he doesn't bother to brush his teeth.
You're only 21. You're a baby. You can do so, so much better
George doesn't sound like he changed at all. He just wants forgiveness to help him absolve himself without actual work. He has had all this time to reach out to you, and he waits until your father's funeral to do it, which is absolutely the wrong time to do that. He acts hurt, petty, and rude when you rebut his advances. Then, he follows it up with an email. He has literally had all this time to make amends, and he doesn't attempt it until he is in his mid-forties. Screw that guy.
You didn’t say why?
I mean this in the nicest way possible: you need to see about getting into therapy. This seems like obsessive behavior, and I think you need professional help to work through it. If you're compulsively worrying and can't eat all day because he may have been in proximity of/glanced at a women who's attractive, then this is seriously impacting your life and its a health issue. You're not broken, but you need to search for ways to help yourself.