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Hi / squirt at goal / NUDE At goal #2 [984 tokens remaining]
Date: November 1, 2022
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Hi / squirt at goal / NUDE At goal #2 [984 tokens remaining]
How did you apologize again? “I’m sorry being right was so important to me that I ignored your feelings until you were literally crushed and crying”? Get the girl flowers or a card. You may have been right but was it worth that?
The fact that she worried about you misusing her photo shows she needs to work on some things about herself before she even thinks about being in a relationship. You dodged a bullet.
Why wait and take care of him if he's a cheater, though? The conversation should happen immediately. I'd be foolish to keep caring for someone that doesn't deserve her time.
Why would you go by yourself? Does your girlfriend not celebrate Easter as well?
I’d book with a therapist who specializes in blended families. I’d ask him to go and if he won’t, I’d make an exit plan and execute it. If he does go, then I’d still make an exit plan and just reevaluate in 6mos—if he’s making an effort and things are improving you can’t stick around and reevaluate again 6 mos after that.
I’m a CF SM and admin a group for other CF SMs. It’s not uncommon to end up with a guy who parents out of post divorce guilt and is permissible, has poor boundaries with ex wife, and basically expects SM to have all of the responsibilities with no authority and just suck it up.
That’s how my first marriage was. I turned myself inside out and upside down trying to make it work. I didn’t leave because of the kids or the house stuff—I got all of that sorted but it took a few years of me being pretty miserable.
After my divorce, I met my current partner and it’s a 180.
If I were in your shoes I’d try the therapy but I wouldn’t stick around if he doesn’t make an effort.